Nothing wrong with banging exes. The sex in relationships is, on average, better than casual sex, but comes with a lot of strings. Banging an ex is like getting relationship sex with no strings. Unless your ex is not entirely emotionally stable, but who ever heard of such a thing?If I were single, having the desire to hook up with a previous ex (one of the good-looking ones, that is) seems reasonable, but another go at a relationship would be a waste of time.
Nothing wrong with banging exes.
Goddammit Cammy, I'm so sorry to hear of your predicament. I have nothing to offer other than nondescript advice about working through things in the most non-confrontational manner possible and retaining whatever positive connections that can be salvaged at this point. I obviously barely know either of you, but from what I gathered from when I met you guys, you both seemed very mature and rational; the sort of people capable of dealing with a situation like this in an agreeable manner.
It seems a bit disingenuous to say it to someone over the internet you barely know, but like Vimana and Eligos said, time trumps all; and I get the impression that you'll be just fine in time given your personality. Keep your head up.
Has anyone ever tried FetLife?
Fetlife definitely seems like a social network first, a porn site second, and a dating site third. It's useful to have a profile, since sometimes you can use it to see girls from OkCupid naked.
I actually just joined FetLife. It appears to be less of a dating site and more Facebook for kinksters, but still worth a look if you're into that scene.
Blasphemyi hate porn. fucking porn. i don't mean that in some simple ban born blah blah boobs are naughty sense.
videodrome and war propaganda porn kind of opened my eyes to how shitty this stuff is for your mind.