Males and Females

Goddammit Cammy, I'm so sorry to hear of your predicament. I have nothing to offer other than nondescript advice about working through things in the most non-confrontational manner possible and retaining whatever positive connections that can be salvaged at this point. I obviously barely know either of you, but from what I gathered from when I met you guys, you both seemed very mature and rational; the sort of people capable of dealing with a situation like this in an agreeable manner.

It seems a bit disingenuous to say it to someone over the internet you barely know, but like Vimana and Eligos said, time trumps all; and I get the impression that you'll be just fine in time given your personality. Keep your head up.
 
If I were single, having the desire to hook up with a previous ex (one of the good-looking ones, that is) seems reasonable, but another go at a relationship would be a waste of time.
Nothing wrong with banging exes. The sex in relationships is, on average, better than casual sex, but comes with a lot of strings. Banging an ex is like getting relationship sex with no strings. Unless your ex is not entirely emotionally stable, but who ever heard of such a thing?
 
Nothing wrong with banging exes.

But only after you've gone out and banged someone else, ofcourse

When You break up with your sex partner, you have to go through banging (or maybe even dating) someone else (maybe even banging multiple people) before you can really even attempt to set up any kind of FWB-with-an-ex, otherwise you're just making a real-life Ross-and-Rachel thing
 
Goddammit Cammy, I'm so sorry to hear of your predicament. I have nothing to offer other than nondescript advice about working through things in the most non-confrontational manner possible and retaining whatever positive connections that can be salvaged at this point. I obviously barely know either of you, but from what I gathered from when I met you guys, you both seemed very mature and rational; the sort of people capable of dealing with a situation like this in an agreeable manner.

It seems a bit disingenuous to say it to someone over the internet you barely know, but like Vimana and Eligos said, time trumps all; and I get the impression that you'll be just fine in time given your personality. Keep your head up.

Thanks Guy, I really do appreciate the advice and kind words. Internet folks offer some of the best advice, not disingenuous at all. Time is definitely on my side with this one.

@ Zeph: thanks for the offer, really appreciate it. I'll keep it in mind if I can't figure anything out by then.
 
I knew a couple of people on it. They liked it, but used it more for hooking up and exploring kinks (obviously) rather than trying to find a relationship
 
I actually just joined FetLife. It appears to be less of a dating site and more Facebook for kinksters, but still worth a look if you're into that scene.
 
Fetlife definitely seems like a social network first, a porn site second, and a dating site third. It's useful to have a profile, since sometimes you can use it to see girls from OkCupid naked.

I actually got hit up by a cutie with all sorts of dirty pics and then she showed me her OKC profile which included face pics so now I basically know what she looks like naked. Also I think she wants me to spank her, so that's cool.
 
In response to the quote in Master O Lightning's sig

Wouldn't date a girl that's sleeping outside

I mean, wouldn't she be covered in fleas ticks lice bedbugs etc etc??
 
i hate porn. fucking porn. i don't mean that in some simple ban born blah blah boobs are naughty sense.

videodrome and war propaganda porn kind of opened my eyes to how shitty this stuff is for your mind.
 
the minority that controls the world controls your mind, for you, love is dead, all that matters in the death cult and your rituals of exercising your hatred of women by dirtying the image of the ideal woman in your mind.