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SentinelSlain
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I checked Fetlife out, and the thing that annoys me is the fact that you can't search for people by gender/age/role or whatever. It would be really helpful if you had that option. Other than that, it's a good site.
Except Kevin Feige
His misogyny is the reason there's still no Carol Danvers movie
This sounds really weird
Why would registration ask you for your age and gender and role if you can't use these criteria to search for other people, I thought FetLife was a dating site
Or is it mostly just the forums??
KafkaX
Mr. Self Destruct
How is me watching porn exercising my hatred of women dirtying the image of the ideal woman?
I really dont see how its bashing women, if both parties consent to have sex on camera, produce and sell it.
EDIT: And if I remember correctly, this is addressed to a person who used to have a pic of women's legs (hopefully a woman) in his avatar...
I mean, facebook asks you for the same info but doesn't let you search for people like that. FetLife wants to be a community more than a dating site - it literally says it's not a meat market. You're supposed to make friends through various subforums and then bang or something. Although of course there are numerous subforums dedicated to personals, and I fully intend to use it as a meat market.
MasterOLightning
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If you're looking for someone specific, you can hope they have the same or similar username to something else (OkC, tumblr, reddit) or you can laboriously browse by location, looking for an age/gender match, and even then some of the profiles you might want to look at are restricted. This is harder in Chicago than it might be in some other location.
I don't think I could pull the trigger on having identifiable photos up on there. I'm sort of amazed how many people actually do.
I don't think I could pull the trigger on having identifiable photos up on there. I'm sort of amazed how many people actually do.
I have pictures of my face, but no nudes or anything. I don't plan on running for office or anything, so fuck it. I'm not ashamed of my kinks (it helps that none of them are overly unconventional) and my face is kind of an asset.
Some people put up dirty pics without their face showing, which puzzles me because if you then meet someone irl they've already seen you naked...although I guess if you're meeting up irl you're probably gonna bang so whatever. Some people post nudes + face, which just strikes me as a bad idea but then again if women didn't make poor decisions about revealing images the internet would be a much less interesting place, so...god bless.
Some people put up dirty pics without their face showing, which puzzles me because if you then meet someone irl they've already seen you naked...although I guess if you're meeting up irl you're probably gonna bang so whatever. Some people post nudes + face, which just strikes me as a bad idea but then again if women didn't make poor decisions about revealing images the internet would be a much less interesting place, so...god bless.
MasterOLightning
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My face doesn't get me laid on OkC, so it's of no use to post on Fetlife, that's for sure. I get why people would rather post faceless nudes than nudeless faces. The risk of a family member or co-worker finding that page is more embarrassing. Yes, they would be on there too, but still, finding out your cousin's or co-worker's kinks is a lot more awkward than finding out they want to meet people to date on a conventional site.
Speaking of poor decisions, more Aly Michalka pictures were out today. I normally don't give a shit about the Nick/Disney girls, but this one is prettier, and I enjoyed her on the short-lived CW show Hellcats. She was a hotter blonde, and the pics aren't completely revealing, but it's still pretty hot stuff.
Speaking of poor decisions, more Aly Michalka pictures were out today. I normally don't give a shit about the Nick/Disney girls, but this one is prettier, and I enjoyed her on the short-lived CW show Hellcats. She was a hotter blonde, and the pics aren't completely revealing, but it's still pretty hot stuff.
Master_Yoda77
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viewerfromnihil
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It looks like it, he's been posting about superheros on numerous UM boards. Where all the whooties at?
SentinelSlain
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so the olden days must be bad and nowadays must be better because that's what television said right?
SentinelSlain
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because you probably watch porn of women that look like barbies getting cummed all over, sodomized and made to have sex with people who were historically (and in aspects of popular culture) seen as inferior.
Eligos
Problem Yet to be Solved
KafkaX
Mr. Self Destruct
*MADE* to have sex? You fail to understand that its their choice. They could just as easily do lesbian porn, or solo porn or not even do porn at all. Does it possibly occur to you that they enjoy getting cummed all over and looking like a barbie?
Me watching some chick get fucked doesnt fuel my hatred for women and dilute the "ideal women's image" because its easy to separate entertainment from real life. Do you stay away from horror movies and violent videogames as well because they will promote violence in your mind advocating the next high school shooting?
Get over it dude, porn is entertainment. Not the downfall of mankind.
SentinelSlain
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Yes it occurs to me, however it also occurs to me that very few women watch that kind of porn and also that the type of women who go to gang bangs are a minority of a minority.
This is non sequitur and ad hominem. I never said that you watching porn will making you fuck a slutty woman and it wouldn't be much of a deep argument if I did. What I'm questioning is the real reasons why you find certain things arousing. Some men watch porn of giant women smothering tiny men with their feet, some men watch transsexuals fuck men in the backside, some men watch midgets being fucked, some men watch illegal porn or real rapes. A lot of those men would be mystified or at least un-aroused by the other types of porn in that list. The point is there is more to what people find sexy than pure natural urges, bonobo style. People get turned on by being denied sex or by someone else fucking their wife. The point I'm making is that the most popular types of porn that come up, when you go on some site are probably quite indicative of trends in the psychology of the market.
Before the Romans were Christianized (I am no Christian, btw, nor even a traditionalist or conservative, as such) they once arranged a display were 1000 blonde young girls were raped by baboons in an arena then ripped to pieces.
Some social scientists say porn has been use historically to destroy the social bonds in a society, particularly between man and woman and to make the men more prone to being loners and perverse.
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