Males and Females

MasteOLightening: Heh, I just gotta suck it up tbh. In terms of the saying better to have than not at all, no one could really say what's worse really as they both suck. Also, people/women greeting you with scowls? That just seems absolutely ridiculous. When I hear stories like that i just tend to think the guys are not looking in the right places. Guys really don't have to worry about attractiveness persay i'd say it's more personality than anything. As long as they are smart, funny, something endearing in their personality there's no reason you shouldn't be able to find a gal.
I think I was grouchy in my reply because the sun has gone away and winter is coming. This is probably why people seem to be scowling. Winter was seriously traumatic last year in the midwest. Also, a lot of the faces I see are on public transit or on the way to or from work. These are generally not happy times for people. So it can be a discouraging atmosphere.

There's a convergence of attractiveness and personality, and that has to do with personal style. Appearance =/ attractiveness. I know I'm not objectively all that bad looking, but I'm not doing myself many favors by dressing in a style that's a mix of normcore and metalhead. Anyone this might appeal to is likely to see better examples of it elsewhere. I live in a more upscale neighborhood, and I'm guessing my look would work in a crustier one, assuming I could have my lower middle class wealth with me. But I guess I've prioritized living in a yuppier area over where I might fit in a lot more.
 
Normalcore is jeans and t-shirt? I wear normalcore and sometimes metal t-shirts too. Although I only have two metal ones now and they're both white so yeah.

EDIT: o wait it's 'normcore'.
 
No I treat my hair better. That actually gets washed on a regular basis.

If I spill a nasty glob of ketchup on my shirt, yeah Ill hand wash it out, but everyday wear? No wash. Not necessary. Waste of water.
 
No I treat my hair better. That actually gets washed on a regular basis.

If I spill a nasty glob of ketchup on my shirt, yeah Ill hand wash it out, but everyday wear? No wash. Not necessary. Waste of water.

I have a friend like this and he smells like shit. I avoid sitting close to him in class.
 
I've been terribly horny the last couple days. I masturbate to the stupidest thoughts like fucking my exes in the ass. And some ugly girls too. It usually doesn't make sense to lower your masturbatory thoughts standard but you know shit hit the fan when it does. And dirty things too.
 
No I treat my hair better. That actually gets washed on a regular basis.

If I spill a nasty glob of ketchup on my shirt, yeah Ill hand wash it out, but everyday wear? No wash. Not necessary. Waste of water.

 
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Do you put on deodorant everyday dude? For me this is a must, unscented Mitchum, one for my pits and another for my crotch. It's an amazing product, especially if you don't wash everyday.

How do you get decent pussy smelling like that?

I hope you at least floss and brush everyday.
 
Anyway, I'm having such a difficult time just hooking up with women "of appropriate age" lately. I don't act like I do here, I'm pretty much cordial and just go with the flow. It seems every girl my age (late 20's early 30's) is out of time and wants to get into something serious fast. Hooking up with college girls is losing its charm and I think I look and/or feel too old (although I think I look like a normal guy; not a creep) to be around 20-24 year olds.

This is a weird age.
 
Anyway, I'm having such a difficult time just hooking up with women "of appropriate age" lately. I don't act like I do here, I'm pretty much cordial and just go with the flow. It seems every girl my age (late 20's early 30's) is out of time and wants to get into something serious fast. Hooking up with college girls is losing its charm and I think I look and/or feel too old (although I think I look like a normal guy; not a creep) to be around 20-24 year olds.

This is a weird age.

Either go after the early 20's girls, or single/divorced MILFs (preferably ones without actual kids). Don't be a HamburgerBoy, and get in there!