Males and Females

I use OkCupid for one reason and one reason only: to see how dishonest women are willing to be via the Internet. I have a couple of priceless stories but last night, I reached my greatest feat yet.

So I've been talking to a polyamorous woman from Chicago over the past month. We didn't have much in common but she was fun to flirt with. Eventually though, we started getting a little more serious in our conversations and yesterday, she said I was someone she could fall for. Later on, we got on the subject of sexuality and I told her something that aroused her so much that she said she was going to go sleep with her primary. Later, she asked if I was feeling jealous and I told her I wasn't. I don't know if that pissed her off or what but she started saying that she wasn't looking for a relationship right now so I blocked her.

I was pissed at first but this is one hell of a story. Talk about insecurity. What do you think her primary partner would have said had he known that she used a stranger to get off? I don't think he would have been pleased and I don't believe for a second that she told him. "Polyamory is honesty" my ass.

Thoughts? I know men are just as ridiculous on dating sites.
 
Women are more dishonest than men I think on that site. Men just have no filter on that site and send unsolicited sick pics.

High standards on that site when you're not really going to find many people with said degree of standards
 
Sounds like she was just using that site to troll desperate men and that she is in fact monogamous. She and her partner probably have a good laugh at their expense.
 
So I'm desperate then, huh? I don't know man. This one was saying some intense shit and she was connected to various polyamorous groups that she added me to. That would be a pretty elaborate scheme.
 
I would agree that she probably is monogamous (for now anyway), but that doesn't mean the partner knows about it. Something is lacking at home so she's trying to get the feeling of being wanted within a "safe space". Women like having multiple guys in thrall - although they generally aren't attracted to those in thrall. I wouldn't be surprised if she were to attempt to rope you in again if you were to unblock her.
 
They are definitely polyamorous. Her profile has a link to her partner's page. That doesn't mean there can't be dishonesty in a polyamorous relationship. She did, however, say that she's inactive with anyone else at the moment.

If she was trolling, she was putting a lot of effort into it. She told me she has bipolar disorder and she would randomly get emotionally combative with me. Nothing serious but still. She was playing games and toying with the idea of leaving her partner for me. I'm sure she does this often with men but I got bored of it after last night. I don't want to know someone who is constantly trying to get me to read between the lines, especially on the Internet.
 
Crazy pussy is the best pussy in bed

still not sure if it's worth it though. My 2nd ex once got on the subway platform in her underwear because we had an argument about a gift I didn't like. That's true crazy pussy
 
It's so alluring. I just hung out with a girl who's into doing stupid shit like robbing a store or setting something on fire just to get sexually aroused. It was cool talking to her but I'm just too old for that shit. Although if she was super hot I cant say I wouldnt think about it
 
This one was a knock out. It sucks because it's virtually impossible for the craziest ones to work out. Total clash of personality.
 
Nice. God she must be such a great tease

You should try Tinder man. It's much easier/faster to find a hook up. Especially if youre near a city

Also started using this app called Burner. It gives you a temporary, disposable phone number. Perfect for the crazies
 
So I'm desperate then, huh? I don't know man. This one was saying some intense shit and she was connected to various polyamorous groups that she added me to. That would be a pretty elaborate scheme.

My apologies, dude. I guessed she was the type to take advantage of desperate men. The fact that you distanced yourself from her excludes you from that category.
 
Women are more dishonest than men I think on that site. Men just have no filter on that site and send unsolicited sick pics.

High standards on that site when you're not really going to find many people with said degree of standards


Women are dishonest pigs on all dating sites from what I can gather. I've heard too many horror stories from friends about chicks asking for dick pix and the like in their initial messages.