Males and Females

On the passion thing I can get that. I often struggle with appearances vs. reality. I really like quiet, meek, "ladylike" qualities on the surface but at the same time a passionate and strong personality underneath all that is very desirable. Be in charge, but do so with a knowing glance rather than a loud or demanding tone...
 
I have this annoying/depressing habit of getting super into a girl and then having all the passion disappear the moment I actually take a step back from the relationship. What gives?

The idea of fucking a bunch of different women my whole life and never developing a lasting relationship does not appeal, but I feel like I can't stay interested for that long.

Draele said:
On the passion thing I can get that. I often struggle with appearances vs. reality. I really like quiet, meek, "ladylike" qualities on the surface but at the same time a passionate and strong personality underneath all that is very desirable. Be in charge, but do so with a knowing glance rather than a loud or demanding tone...
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I find power sexy in a woman when it's from a secure place. The nagging and controlling types annoy me, or their opposites which are the helpless ones that need you to solve the dumbest shit they can solve themselves.
 
When I get out of the dynamic of thinking of the person as someone special and start being open to the fact that there's other options. It's this big moment of wondering where the feelings came from if they were even there at all.

I talked to this girl for almost 4 months and it felt pretty close, but then I thought I wanted us to be a thing and then we talked about it and she said I wanted too much and I found myself agreeing. I realized I didn't love her like I said I did and now we're taking a break but I have no interest in talking to her again. It just vanished.
 
Went on a date tonight. It went well. She already texted me two hours after the date to try and set up another one. I'll get back to her tomorrow.
 
Fuck games. If a girl is more attracted to me the longer I ignore her, I just forget about her entirely. If you can't be yourself without filtering and be liked by a person doing the same, why bother? Just to gain some semblance of self-worth by feeling worthy of a person's interest without a real connection?
 
zabu of nΩd;11009431 said:
Went on a date tonight. It went well. She already texted me two hours after the date to try and set up another one. I'll get back to her tomorrow.
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:)

Glad to hear that being wiped out from MDF didn't affect your game.
 
Never understood these "games" really. My fiancee said one of the things that immediately attracted her was when she gave me her number (we met online), I called her that evening. I didn't text. I called. I showed interest and initiative
 
I feel like the dating world is dominated by people more interested in and better at "getting" people than developing relationships. Since people who have long-term relationships are meeting people less since they're staying with people more, they're invisible to the people more or less constantly on the prowl.
 
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