Starting to worry my dude wants kids. He makes random little comments when we have guests, and maybe its just making conversation, but it worries me. I made it pretty clear I'm not the child rearing type all those years ago when we got together, and he felt the same. Really hope he hasn't changed his mind because we have a really awesome thing going.
If it came down to it though, I'd choose remaining childless over him. Just not something I want any part of, from the pregnancy to the birth to the they never fucking go away. Debating bringing that subject up discretely so he realizes just because we live together now doesn't mean I'm suddenly a different person who wants that life.