Males and Females
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Jimmy... Dead.
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Dak
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The Ozzman
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uke:
Pretty much. If you have any ounce of intuition, you'll know before the end of the second date. I usually know by the end of the first date.
Dak
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Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
The Ozzman
Melted by feels
Non verbal cues are hard for me as well. I always say that I can't interpret body language but I think my intuitiveness was and is better than I think for these situations
zabu of nΩd
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CiG
Room with a View
Fuck beard culture, I hate myself for even having a beard now due to these fucking yuppie twats.
Also I'm gonna be a massive asshole and say that this degree of dating game over-analysation that most of you participate in is probably indicative of why the fuck you're all single to begin with.
I get that some of you have anxiety issues, social awkwardness and specific traits you'd like to find in a partner, but it seems you severely lack the blasé disposition that almost always leads to much more success than desperately trying to pick up on social cues and treating everything in a complicated manner does.
These are interesting to read though.
Also I'm gonna be a massive asshole and say that this degree of dating game over-analysation that most of you participate in is probably indicative of why the fuck you're all single to begin with.
I get that some of you have anxiety issues, social awkwardness and specific traits you'd like to find in a partner, but it seems you severely lack the blasé disposition that almost always leads to much more success than desperately trying to pick up on social cues and treating everything in a complicated manner does.
These are interesting to read though.
Dak
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One of these days I'm goin to chill with CIG. Coolest guy that's happened on these hell forksaken forums in a while.
The Ozzman
Melted by feels
Probably explains why you're on a message board in the middle of the night instead of out on a date
You're right though. Too many people treat it like a game and it's because those people are secretly miserable and longing for something they can't get through conventional means due to some deficiency they possess.
I over analyze everything. I don't think people should be penalized for that necessarily. It's more an anxiety or control issue but I've been doing that shit since I can remember so maybe it's innate..
zabu of nΩd
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Socially awkward guys overanalyzing the dating game... unforgivable.
Life is full of arbitrary social norms, and dating is no different. These norms come naturally to some people, while others have to make a lifelong career out of learning them.
So it's not complicated to you. Congrats. You're not us, and nothing you say will change that. You do it your way, we'll do it ours.
CiG
Room with a View
I consider myself an over-thinker and I'm no wedding crasher, I'm not trying to shit on you for having to do things this way just to function in the dating world, I just feel like there's a lot of enabling going on in here so I wanted to add another voice, a voice of contempt for all your fucking nitpicking of every detail of a damn interaction with a woman.
It's a Sunday afternoon here.
Probably explains why you're on a message board in the middle of the night instead of out on a date
It's a Sunday afternoon here.
Master_Yoda77
Juggalo
Despite myself, and everyone I've talked to that has seen her with me, I'm starting to think that this girl isn't that into me.
So, we go out to the city for a show and have a great time. All is great. We leave to do the hour drive back and I am expecting her to crash at my place, simply because it's another 20-30 minutes back to her place, but nerp, she takes right off. She was passing out in the car, so I kinda knew that any sort of sexual activity was long gone, but I hoped that she'd be down to cuddle for a bit before passing out. But I guess not.
This leads me to believe that she is not actually interested in me romantically. I don't fucking know.
Women.
So, we go out to the city for a show and have a great time. All is great. We leave to do the hour drive back and I am expecting her to crash at my place, simply because it's another 20-30 minutes back to her place, but nerp, she takes right off. She was passing out in the car, so I kinda knew that any sort of sexual activity was long gone, but I hoped that she'd be down to cuddle for a bit before passing out. But I guess not.
This leads me to believe that she is not actually interested in me romantically. I don't fucking know.
Women.
TechnicalBarbarity
Poser Disposer
What happened to the flock of 14-15 year olds you used to date?
Well at least they're closer to being adults now, so at least you got that going for you, lol.What happened to the flock of 14-15 year olds you used to date?
I must have really offended you, since you feel the need to pick fights in other threads!
What's the matter? Are the cramps getting to you? Here, friend, a gift:
TechnicalBarbarity
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