Males and Females

seems hypocritical that a poly-person dates?

This is the situation. She has a boyfriend who has another girlfriend. She decided, mutatis mutandis, that she might as well start doing the same. So, we're both experimenting with non-monogamy together.
 
pussy is pussy, just train your brain to not give a shit that other dicks go in and enjoy it for what it is. a hole, a body, some laughs. the fact that other dudes experience the same thing does not invalidate your experience as long as you get your nuts off
 
People care way too much about Western women's sexuality. I don't see why it matters anymore than the sexuality of the severely mentally or physically handicapped or, in particular, that of teenage boys who lack social skills.

Same basic reason society cares more about the male unemployment rate compared to the female unemployment rate.
 
There was a point where I became pretty good at turning my emotions on and off at will. But I can't offer adequate advice on how to do so.

So my advice is to simply slam a case of shitty cheap brews.
 
The night went well actually. Got a kiss goodnight from her which gives me the impression that she still likes me, but as I was saying on FB, all I want to do is just be in her fucking presence these days.

After a few days I'll go back to my normal self and distance my feelings, but once I visit her again they hit like a fucking ton of bricks.