I've known her for a few months. I met her on lastfm, I didn't meet her in Spain. She's a metalhead too, who knows, maybe she's viewing these posts?How long have you talked to this girl? I mean, there are online friends I have known for fucking years that I would pay for a ticket to meet (if I had the cash). Splitting a ticket 50/50 might be a good way to do it for a friend, but... obvious stuff has already been brought up (using you, just doing it for ass. etc.)
How long have you known this person for?
Another Brazilian girl I met in Spain did say she would go on a date with me whenever I go to her city. So there's something.
I'm going to shoot basketball with a girl tomorrow night also.