Women these days get drunk and make out with their girlfriends all the time...so that's not the best argument to use. However, the point that I was making was that even if a man has some level of intimate feelings for a woman, that doesn't mean that his feelings of friendship to her are not genuine or based purely on his romantic feelings. What the opposite side of the argument seemed to be implying was that guys basically only pretend to be friends with women so that they can be in prime pouncing position should the opportunity arise. Now, I'm sure that is true for a lot of guys, but it's definitely far from universal.