Males and Females

There's a slovakian girl in my student corridor that I think kinda likes me. I like her too, not in love or anything but curious (and tbh, desperate.) She's always happy to see me and yesterday I went with her and two of her friends to buy tickets for a valentine's day party and on the way back she made an excuse to split the group up so her and I could walk back home together. Then we went shopping and she asked me a bunch of personal questions about my family and shit. Today I asked her if she wanted to go see the new Yorgos Lanthimos movie with me, and I know you guys are gonna make this a whole thing with me but really it wasn't intentional, I had already planned to go see it today and it came up organically in conversation. She said no so obviously this relationship is dead in the water, can't be with someone who passes on a Lanthimos film. I went and saw it alone, it was good, I have the most exciting love life.
Dude I was talking Yorgos with a hot Greek girl a few nights back. They're out there.
 
yorgos is for normies now the favourite is winning all these awards, a female friend of mine whose idea of great movies is love actually and mulan was talking about him the other day. for true marriage material you need someone who loves legend of the galactic heroes.
 
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Try baiting your line with something other than incel quirkster bait.

My bait is just right for the fish I want to catch. I won't reel in mediocre fish just to fill my bucket, because then I won't have room for the fish I actually do want.
 
The incel trap is the pursuit of the "ideal woman" who probably doesn't exist and if they do probably isn't available, at the expense of other women whom you can forge a long lasting relationship with.

Anyway I was just joking around and implying VP is an incel, I really don't have much of an opinion about the fish in the sea and all that lame shit.
 
But I'm not pursuing some fantasy ideal. I'm pursuing women like those I've dated before. I haven't been able to crossover into official relationship status, but I'm getting better. I'm not missing out on anything by not settling for someone mediocre, when I can always just hire an escort when I get an itch.
 
Any particular reason these chicks you've dated before didn't work out for you? Chasing something that hasn't worked multiple times is probably just as crazy as chasing an unattainable ideal.

I haven't realized my full potential in terms of what I can bring to the table. Right now I just recently finished training at a coding boot camp in St. Louis, so I'm on the job search right now. Plus, I'd still like to form a band, but the career part comes first. You might tell me that until I get my own situation in order, I'm wasting my time putting myself out there, but that's where you're wrong. Everyone I pursue is just more practice.

I think the fact that you wear skinny jeans may be part of the problem

Maybe I'll have better luck telling the same jokes over and over again. Then I could exchange my skinny jeans for baggy clown pants, which are what suits you.
 
I haven't realized my full potential in terms of what I can bring to the table. Right now I just recently finished training at a coding boot camp in St. Louis, so I'm on the job search right now. Plus, I'd still like to form a band, but the career part comes first. You might tell me that until I get my own situation in order, I'm wasting my time putting myself out there, but that's where you're wrong. Everyone I pursue is just more practice.

Fair enough. I don't even know how I ended up in this serious discussion about your love life based on the comments I made. Good luck though, I actually agree much more with dating many people before settling down than trying to find "the one" and having your whole life destroyed by expectations not met.