Males and Females

[Carpe Mortem]

My condolences. You don't need to know someone well to appreciate that their death is a loss.

 

[MasterpieceMesias]

I guy I knew about 20 years ago had that happen to him. They weren't serious, although he'd brought up the idea of marriage a few times, he'd brought up the idea of them moving in together, then she up and died on him and ruined all his plans. He was distraught, cried for days and ignored the few friends he had left. It was nearly 12 months to the day before he found out the girl was not dead and it was just and excuse to get the fuck away from him. Even her parents were in on the act because he was just too clingy and wouldn't accept that she wanted to break up. When we found out the truth we spent the next week pissing ourselves laughing.

Oops did you say something about sympathy?

Yeah, go fuck yourself. I hope you eat a bullet soon

 

[MasterpieceMesias]

My condolences. You don't need to know someone well to appreciate that their death is a loss.

Thanks, at least one person here has some form of empathy

 

[Slammed]

Hey I didn't call you a dumb cunt or a piece of useless shit, I didn't even tell you to get the fuck over it. I simply related a similar story to yours and you tell me to go fuck myself and eat a bullet. Talk about unwarranted.

 

[MasterpieceMesias]

Hey I didn't call you a dumb cunt or a piece of useless shit, I didn't even tell you to get the fuck over it. I simply related a similar story to yours and you tell me to go fuck myself and eat a bullet. Talk about unwarranted.

You have my permission to cry about it

 

[Slammed]

Oh thanks, can I cry on your shoulder?

 

[MasterpieceMesias]

Actually, I apologize. I was being a dick for no good reason. I'm just a bit emotionally beatup right now. I am genuinely sorry

What I need is a long island and a fucking therapist. This was just so sudden that she's gone. Again, it wasn't even two weeks ago when we left the bar, sat in her car and laughed together for hours

 

[Slammed]

Not needed, all's good.
You were being no more of a dick than the rest of us do on a daily basis.

 

[MasterpieceMesias]

Who I really feel bad for is her poor parents.
I've been drunk for several hours now.

Yeah, I may be an asshole but I'm not a psychopath. When you lose someone you cared about, even if it was a short time, nothing makes sense anymore.

 

[TechnicalBarbarity]

i had a friend who was in a similar situation, but from what he was telling me she was just some ghetto booty call type that he picked up on at a 7-11 or something, they would mostly just get stoned and fool around. I rember he was telling me how weird it was that she hadnt called him for a few days and then we found out that she was killed in some drug deal related incident. Dude was a stone cold motherfucker but i could tell how it was on his mind everytime we would chop it up. He ended up having anxiety attacks or what not which we all knew stemmed from what happened

My condolences. You don't need to know someone well to appreciate that their death is a loss.

yea for sure.

 

[MasterpieceMesias]

Oh jeez. That hits too close to home. The woman I was dating passed due to a drug overdose. As cheesy as this may sound my heart goes out to your buddy. I'm not usually this emotional, so if I'm being annoying, eh sorry

 

[Blurry_Dreams]

I guy I knew about 20 years ago had that happen to him. They weren't serious, although he'd brought up the idea of marriage a few times, he'd brought up the idea of them moving in together, then she up and died on him and ruined all his plans. He was distraught, cried for days and ignored the few friends he had left. It was nearly 12 months to the day before he found out the girl was not dead and it was just and excuse to get the fuck away from him. Even her parents were in on the act because he was just too clingy and wouldn't accept that she wanted to break up. When we found out the truth we spent the next week pissing ourselves laughing.

this is actually a hilarious story

 

[Blurry_Dreams]

the woman I was briefly dating passed away. I know it wasn't anything super serious, but it still hurts. It wasn't too long ago that we were sitting in her car laughing together.

I have been drinking to numb the pain. Only thing saving my grammar is autocorrect.

Guys, I feel awful

EDIT: actually, why am I posting this here. Most of you misadjusted fuck ups are incapable of sympathy

i was gonna marry a woman that died
i got over it by fucking other women

 

[Blurry_Dreams]

Polyamory is on the rise, and ABC's comedy "Single Parents" is normalizing it with a loving throuple | Salon.com

 

[Sedition and Pockets]

Polyamory is on the rise, and ABC's comedy "Single Parents" is normalizing it with a loving throuple | Salon.com

I've seen some wonderful poly relationships, but it often seems like a way for 2-4 underconfident women to share the burden of raising one bum dude to adulthood.

 

[CiG]

Define "on the rise" because I'm highly skeptical. Also, more interesting to me would be the fail rate (bet it's extremely high).

 

[Krow]

I mean, aren’t all relationships fail rates fairly high?

 

[MasterpieceMesias]

I still feel a need to have someone in my life, but there's also a part of me that's afraid to get hurt again because I'm still grieving over the death of my previous girlfriend.

I'm feeling all sorts of shit. I need some fucking vodka right now, but I work in a few hours so I can't even drink until the late evening

 

[Blurry_Dreams]

I've seen some wonderful poly relationships, but it often seems like a way for 2-4 underconfident women to share the burden of raising one bum dude to adulthood.

i've seen more poly relationships that are just 1 girl with multiple guys

 

[CiG]

I mean, aren’t all relationships fail rates fairly high?

I meant relative to.