I like kids and I'll be a dad one day, just not for a long time
This could be your problem. The absolute worst thing a guy can do for himself is talk to a cute girl at a bar and completely ignore her less-cute friend.
I don't go out of my way to hang out with girls I have absolutely no interest in. I wouldn't simply not talk to a chick I have no interest in, though.
I already know my biggest problem. Being an open-book and caring too much. It's hard to change that part of my personality (and I wouldn't want to completely anyway) but I've gotten better about it. It's hard for me to completely leave someone I like alone.
Yes. Well, first I'd say "I'm happy with my body type, so if you can't get over that, then too bad." If she has a problem with my body type and can't possibly live with it, she can go find somebody she's attracted to. Try not to be such a condescending prick, by the way. Not everybody has to act the way you think they should.
KD is the kind of guy intelligent girls with slightly feminist personal beliefs avoid like the plague.
It's not about whether you believe women should have equal rights so much as whether a dude is likely to say "Quiet the men are talking," which I can picture you doing.
We all have that problem to some extent, I think. If you have to ask yourself if you could be a little less fussy/smothering that means you're being FAR too attentive.
Fair enough, I do realize that GMD is the equivalent of the boys' locker room.
Feminism: the radical notion that women are human beings.
Feminism is the politically correct name for Misandry.