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Houses Ov Mercury
my girlfriend (now ex I suppose) was totally blindsided. there was a lot of crying on both sides, though I may have cried more. I admitted that most of the problems in the relationship were my fault. I wanted to be alone more than I wanted to be with her. that was a fact, and it really rubbed the wrong way. She loved me more than I loved her. Which isn't to say I didn't love her...I just loved her differently. I also said her negative attitude didn't help things.
In the end, I told her it seemed like we were just two different people looking for different things. I don't know myself very well, nor do I know what I want in life.
Wow, this encompasses a lot of the reasons I broke up with my ex, kind of uncanny actually. On top of these things, she has a lot of work to do on herself (though last time I spoke with her she was doing a lot better in therapy; visual reprogramming to get over the trauma, etc. which I'm proud of her for). It is such a shitty feeling to lose someone you originally felt so perfect with, or perhaps you met them in a very crazy, cosmically-fucked way (like we did) and you both thought you were going to be together forever, etc.
At this point, I'm not going to really look for anyone else. I am just gonna adopt a "come what may" attitude about dating/relationships, because they tend to be a lot of work, and I have a lot of work to do both on myself and school-wise for another year. Perhaps after I graduate I'll solidify what I want and stuff, and a relationship would make more sense.