Males and Females

[Satanstoenail]

I just initiated a breakup. I'm now single for the first time in ten years. Everything is absolutely bizarre at the moment.

 

[arg]

I feel so shitty about dumping my girl.

that's why you don't tell her you're leaving, so you keep fucking her until the very last day. then disappear suddenly and sever all contact. too late now tho

 

[SentinelSlain]

I'm taking a break from weed for a while.



Funny. I feel the exact opposite. Having initiated the breakup with my recent ex makes me feel very good about myself, though I think under very different circumstances. And that's saying something. She was the most beautiful girl I've ever been with by far.

This girl was the most attractive girl I've been with but I couldn't communicate with her properly and I wasn't the person she wanted me to be. Meh, the longest it could have lasted was till July anyway, but seeing her march off, in a stress, swearing in Russian, was upsetting.

I already have a date lined up with another girl though.

 

[Vimana]

Because you don't do it like a man and instead engage in unnecessary cloak-and-dagger bullshit.

Actually, I have only ever done it "like a man." With the last girl, who I'm not going to count as an actual ex, I was going to indirectly manipulate her into breaking it off, but I just decided "fuck it, I'll break it off directly" since there was no chance of the kind of fallout I got from the only other two girls I dumped.

This time was easy, though. She called me an asshole and said she had trusted me with her life. She barely knew me, so the shock of the magnitude of her desperation got rid of any sympathy I had for her.

 

[CF87]

I've quit drinking for sometimes months on end, but have never been able to quit. According to people in order to live a sober lifestyle you have to change as a person and change your life. It's not exactly as easy as that. When you've been living a certain way sober and non sober to all of the sudden need to find spirituality,serenity, whatever the fuck these things are. I really don't know.

 

[zabu of nΩd]

I just initiated a breakup. I'm now single for the first time in ten years. Everything is absolutely bizarre at the moment.

Damn dude, i hope it goes ok for you. Why the breakup?

I've quit drinking for sometimes months on end, but have never been able to quit. According to people in order to live a sober lifestyle you have to change as a person and change your life. It's not exactly as easy as that. When you've been living a certain way sober and non sober to all of the sudden need to find spirituality,serenity, whatever the fuck these things are. I really don't know.

I'd say just focus on finding new habits for your free time (video games, exercise, some kind of project, etc) and new people that you like hanging out with while sober.

 

[Zephyrus]

A hobby in the contemplation of something immaterial I find to be a very important component of living, especially if one's career does not fulfill that. I feel like I'm stating the obvious here but it can't hurt.

 

[zabu of nΩd]

You make it sound like something involving some kind of mystical experiences or meditation, but i assume you could be referring to just reading novels or history books.

 

[monoxide_child]

how did this turn into a thread about drinking???

 

[Zephyrus]

You make it sound like something involving some kind of mystical experiences or meditation, but i assume you could be referring to just reading novels or history books.

Either or both!

 

[PhlegethonVeins]

how did this turn into a thread about drinking???

I think it is pretty obvious.

 

[Satanstoenail]

Damn dude, i hope it goes ok for you. Why the breakup?

Cheers. She has many issues (anger mainly, also depression, insecurity etc) and this has caused many incidents over the years. I'm over having to deal with this shit. I'm an extremely tolerant person and I've tried to make the best of it longer than most would but enough is enough.

 

[damnromulans]

Cheers. She has many issues (anger mainly, also depression, insecurity etc) and this has caused many incidents over the years. I'm over having to deal with this shit. I'm an extremely tolerant person and I've tried to make the best of it longer than most would but enough is enough.

Good for you. You deserve to live your life without having to babysit. I think it's great when people are willing to tolerate and deal with a s/o's emotional problems, but I can't do it. Too selfish.

 

[crimsonfloyd]

Living with my ex indefinitely. Sharing a bed. Life is misery.

 

[KafkaX]

So what the fuck is up with women being obsessed and attached to their animals?...Shit is such a fucking turn off. I can understand loving your pets, but when it gets crossed over the line, shit gets weird.

 

[zabu of nΩd]

So what the fuck is up with women being obsessed and attached to their animals?...Shit is such a fucking turn off. I can understand loving your pets, but when it gets crossed over the line, shit gets weird.

 

[KafkaX]

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!

That woman is in dire need of psychiatric help, good god.

 

[Saparmurat_Niyazov]

 

[Master_Yoda77]

That is a groovy fucking track.

 

[V.V.V.V.V.]

Love that song.