Males and Females

[Manic Ferocity]

Well why do women say stuff like that? There's just no honesty there if they're going to move on the minute it's convenient for them. My ex said there wasn't anyone else she wanted to be with either up until two days before getting back into contact with a hipster who had given her his number. That isn't the first time that's happened either but before, it was at least with women who I hadn't been dating for two years.

I messed up things pretty badly so I probably deserve what my girlfriend did to me. It doesn't sound like KafkaX did though and his woman, like many, played the confusion card in order to get back with her ex. It's just a typical response that I've seen countless women give and they do it as if they think it's going to hurt us less by confusing us as much as possible (it doesn't).

 

[KafkaX]

random females do crazy-ass shit like that
there's really only 2 possibilities here
the first one is that she wasn't trying to hurt you, she genuinely meant everything she said, but then, when you were gone, she went back to her ex because she's addicted to being in a relationship
the other possibility is that she was secretly wanting to get back together with her ex the entire fucking time she was with you
either way you're definitely much better off without her

I think its both, and I agree that I am. Hard not to let shit like that make you become jaded.

I would say these are all grounds for being a little grudgey...living well IS the best revenge though

I dont want revenge, but I get what youre saying.

Well why do women say stuff like that? There's just no honesty there if they're going to move on the minute it's convenient for them. My ex said there wasn't anyone else she wanted to be with either up until two days before getting back into contact with a hipster who had given her his number. That isn't the first time that's happened either but before, it was at least with women who I hadn't been dating for two years.

I messed up things pretty badly so I probably deserve what my girlfriend did to me. It doesn't sound like KafkaX did though and his woman, like many, played the confusion card in order to get back with her ex. It's just a typical response that I've seen countless women give and they do it as if they think it's going to hurt us less by confusing us as much as possible (it doesn't).

Youre right man, it makes shit worse. A whole fucking lot worse. I feel they play that card, so it takes less of the heat off them because they dont have the fucking balls to come out and say whats really going on because that will make them look like a piece of shit.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

Well I think it's just pure cowardice. They simply don't have the courage to be honest. Nobody likes to be led on and that's certainly not exclusive to men.

 

[Satanstoenail]

Only bitchcunts do that sort of shit though. I don't think I've ever seen a chick do that who went on to have a meaningful lasting relationship with her ex.

 

[damnromulans]

It's a softening technique/attempt at keeping options open. Every chick, whether she admits it or not, likes knowing there are a few dudes "in orbit" who would be with her if she gave them the green light. Doesn't have to be and probably shouldn't be ones we have loved and lost/let go, randoms count.

 

[The Butt]

and post it here. TheButt will pay you

I will.

 

[SentinelSlain]

What pisses me off about women is how the young ones don't ever turn their sexuality off and just deal with people in a reasonable way. For example, say you're talking to a girl slightly nervously, about your idea for a group project. *Ears turned off, goes straight to gossiping about some utter shit with other bitch*, I complain "hheeehee, oh you've got to talk to girls confidently, hehhehe", screw you bitch, I'm not after your orifices, I want your input. Stop being a ho and become a person.

 

[Zephyrus]

It's a softening technique/attempt at keeping options open. Every chick, whether she admits it or not, likes knowing there are a few dudes "in orbit" who would be with her if she gave them the green light. Doesn't have to be and probably shouldn't be ones we have loved and lost/let go, randoms count.

Women need to realize that the Ptolemaic model is obsolete.

 

[-CC-]

What pisses me off about women is how the young ones don't ever turn their sexuality off and just deal with people in a reasonable way. For example, say you're talking to a girl slightly nervously, about your idea for a group project. *Ears turned off, goes straight to gossiping about some utter shit with other bitch*, I complain "hheeehee, oh you've got to talk to girls confidently, hehhehe", screw you bitch, I'm not after your orifices, I want your input. Stop being a ho and become a person.

lolwut

 

[Dak]

I haven't the slightest clue where SS got his perspective on social interaction from, so I'll just blame the usual suspects.

 

[SentinelSlain]

The power women have over men, their sexual power, becomes an addiction for them and renders them ultimately shallow, individualistic creatures.

 

[Dak]

Because dudes like you give them that power.

 

[SentinelSlain]

However much men stare at their tits, women still have societal obligations.

 

[damnromulans]

Women need to realize that the Ptolemaic model is obsolete.

Bahaha, space and dick are two different things entirely

 

[SentinelSlain]

Krampfish, what do you think of what I said?

 

[Manic Ferocity]

It's a softening technique/attempt at keeping options open. Every chick, whether she admits it or not, likes knowing there are a few dudes "in orbit" who would be with her if she gave them the green light. Doesn't have to be and probably shouldn't be ones we have loved and lost/let go, randoms count.

This is very interesting because I HAVE been one of the guys kept in "orbit" while some girl was trying to get over her ex. It has happened on more than one occasion, actually. In fact, you can scroll back through this thread and look at posts I made years ago whining about being that guy in "orbit" haha. This is the first time I've been the "ex" in this kind of situation.

 

[Einherjar86]

The power women have over men, their sexual power, becomes an addiction for them and renders them ultimately shallow, individualistic creatures.

Because dudes like you give them that power.

The idea that women occupy a position of power that must be denied them by sexually confident males is pretty misogynistic. Not gonna lie.

 

[Astrum]

I need advice from you pussy starved nerds

and maybe the women on here

so for the past week I've been unusually depressed, I've felt like absolute shit, and I've been tired. I'm currently "homeless" as your average middle class asshole would call it (I have a camp in the forest, personally I love it but not everyone sees how). This isn't like me and I'm usually the one telling every one else to suck it up. I've been doing so much work in the past month and have been on such a euphoric pink cloud due to changes in my life, I think I must be crashing from it all.

Anyway, my girl and I are normally best friends. We argue like any other couple, but probably 80% of the time we can comfortably occupy each others time effortlessly. This week though I've felt so shitty I honestly have not wanted to see her. If any of you can get this, the depressed mood I'm in would make me either quiet or glum, maybe even pissed off. I don't want to see her not because I don't miss her (because I do) but because I just don't have the energy to talk to anyone, move off the couch, or sustain a conversation. I'm honestly miserable and I'm not pleased about it but it's true. She's getting so pissed. I don't not want to see her because of anything about her, it's just me. I'll just piss her off or we'll end up fighting. The only way I have to see her as of right now is to walk incredibly far in the rain. Exhausted. Plain and simple I just don't want her to think I hate her, or I don't want her to think I don't miss her. I'm fighting with her over trying to explain why I don't want to go out tonight, or why I haven't all week really. But she's not going to understand because all she's hearing is "No I don't want to see you". which is technically the truth. but not the way she is seeing it.

I hope somebody understood that because I honestly vomited it out like a moron

I hate women

 

[Dak]

The idea that women occupy a position of power that must be denied them by sexually confident males is pretty misogynistic. Not gonna lie.

Apparently I wasn't clear. Man_01 and Woman_01 are [equals]. Then Man_01 starts putting Woman_01 on some sort of pedestal because of her lady bits, and then complaining that she looks down on him from the lofty perch he (and other men) has/have placed her on.

It's not a complicated or misogynistic explanation. The same dynamic can occur between members of the same gender, borrowing the stereotypes of the "High School QB" and the "betas" following him around.

 

[The Ozzman]

However much men stare at their tits, women still have societal obligations.

Like being in the kitchen and laundry room, amirite?