Males and Females

[King Richard]

Had a date with a hot slam piece the other night. Went well, tried unsuccessfully to have more dates with her, then today was told "I didn't feel anything that night, so I don't think I want a relationship with you, but I'm open to a friends with benefits type deal". So we fucked today, and now my desire to be with her is even worse. I'm too old for this kind of shit to happen. Fuck.

She doesn't feel anything but is dtf? Interesting.

 

[damnromulans]

Some people are better at DTF sans emotions than others. I am not among them. I could probably have emotional relationships with like 15 people at once but am comfortable being physical with only 1.

PP is the first person I've dated who fulfills everything, my eye does not wander. It's CRAAAAZY and I'm not complaining. I also pretended to just be DTF and not into him for the first few months but he did everything right. So maybe that'll happen to you, Mathias

 

[KafkaX]

I've got a lot of slam pieces I could fuck. This one has all the extras that make her ultra datable. Good job, smart, just a tad submissive, loves to cook etc.

I'm 22

Those all might be extras that make her more dateable in your eyes, but the fact that shes DTF with no relationship, atleast to me, is a pretty red flag if you were to date her...

Normally its the other way around like what Krampus said. More often than not chicks are the ones hidding their emotions and pretending to just be DTF to lure in the guy shes interested in...Hook, line, sinker.

22 is still fairly young man. I wouldnt say youre too old to be dealing with this.

 

[damnromulans]

It was never a luring thing so much as we both obviously wanted to date but were just out of long term (in his case, super conflict-y on and off for 8 years) relationships and neither wanted to admit it. We basically pretended we were FWB until he was half asleep and murmured "I love you" HAHA

But since apparently being DTF with no strings is a "red flag" (I'd disagree of course unless you meant why logically invest emotionally in someone who claims they don't have feelings for you, which everyone should agree with) why would any sensible chick do things in that order?

 

[SentinelSlain]

"no feelings allowed" sex is shit imho. You just fall for them. If they were fugly, I wouldn't be up for it, so if they're pretty and sleeping with me, I'll probably fall for them, because I'm lonely as fuck.

 

[Eligos]

Yeah dude I'm 22 as well. Don't set ridiculous goals for yourself. When you find someone who validates you emotionally and takes care of your needs, it won't matter how old you are. My dad didn't find love til he was 52, and projected onto my mom for 20+ years til she couldn't handle it anymore.

They say you become your father and it's something I've been battling since I was 17 -_-

 

[KafkaX]

Well that would make sense why im a fucking drunk who picks women that drive me fucking insane.

 

[Eligos]

I tend to drift between treating sporty tomboys like fuckbags and projecting my idea of the perfect woman onto smart indie girls. It's a vicious cycle.

 

[SentinelSlain]

Women are a fucknut.

 

[Onder]

"no feelings allowed" sex is shit imho. You just fall for them. If they were fugly, I wouldn't be up for it, so if they're pretty and sleeping with me, I'll probably fall for them, because I'm lonely as fuck.

 

[monoxide_child]

They say you become your father

i've become my father

i'm a total male slut

the only difference between me and my father is that my father has living children with 2 dozen women but every time i impregnate anyone it ends up either being an abortion or a miscarriage

 

[SentinelSlain]

have you done the unmentionable with your mother? I'm guessing you have.

 

[monoxide_child]

have you done the unmentionable with your mother? I'm guessing you have.

where the hell did that come from??

 

[SentinelSlain]

see above.

 

[monoxide_child]

see above.

aaahhh

i see it now

i'm just slow today

 

[SentinelSlain]

Tbh, I probably shouldn't admit this, but it's the internet so whatever.

 

[monoxide_child]

Tbh, I probably shouldn't admit this, but it's the internet so whatever. I really don't like seeing interracial couples. It's disconcerting. Some latina women are hot and I dated an asian girl but I kind of wish I hadn't, so I could say I've never dated out. It's just like, why would you give up your whole identity and go along with someone's ghetto bullshit or religious shit, just because you find them hot or want to annoy your dad. What the fuck?

i wouldn't have said it in exactly those words

but tbh, i agree with this

 

[Matt]

Tbh, I probably shouldn't admit this, but it's the internet so whatever. I really don't like seeing interracial couples. It's disconcerting. Some latina women are hot and I dated an asian girl but I kind of wish I hadn't, so I could say I've never dated out. It's just like, why would you give up your whole identity and go along with someone's ghetto bullshit or religious shit, just because you find them hot or want to annoy your dad. What the fuck?

Tbh, you're a fucking idiot.

 

[SentinelSlain]

I don't even agree with my post. I don't know. It doesn't matter at a certain level. I guess I'm just lonely and human. If culture and class didn't come into it and it was just about race, and I was talking purely in terms of real morality, not just self interest, then it doesn't matter.

 

[monoxide_child]

Tbh, you're a fucking idiot.

he said it in an offensive way
but i really don't think he meant it as pure racism

i can hang out with blacks/asians/hispanics, doesn't mean i'm gonna date them