Males and Females

IGNORE HER

I would be all 'If it's not about hooking up, I'm not interested'

Both great are advice lol

Turns out she just wanted to know if it was ok to goto a bridal shower of a friend of mines. She doesn't know her too well, which is why I'm surprised she's invited, especially because we aren't together...Anyway, it's bullshit to get left on a cliffhanger to eventually get asked something so fucking trivial.

Fucking stupid.
 
I wouldn't necessarily view it that way. Sometimes exes try to start the ball rolling again by creating opportunities for smalltalk, "checking in," and other bullshit things that seem meaningless, but are the start of a grander design.
 
What I'm mostly mad about is that I thought she understood me and loved me for who I am, but when I fell into one of her prejudices, she didn't reevaluate the prejudice (or even consider it when I told her to), but treated me like a completely different person and broke up with me for it.

She went on this rant about how all I do is smoke weed all day and how I don't do anything. I work and go to school and do plenty of stuff on the side. She knew all of that and I told her about it, but once pot came into the picture, I apparently turned into her stereotypical pothead that she hates.

I'm mostly affected because I thought she understood me more than anyone else, but then completely forgot who I am because of pot.

Is she one of those girls who thinks it's okay to drink like a fish on the weekend, yet looks down at anyone who smokes weed even occasionally as "lazy"?

Either way, let go of her. Sounds like a dumb bitch.
 
Showering is over-rated. Girls like it when you smell like shit.

Pheromones are a real thing and there one of the basic triggers in what makes one sexually attracted to another. When you wear deodorant/perfume/cologne you mask the scent of your pheromones.

I've had experiences where I've gone from just liking a girl to going totally wild over her smell. I've also had the opposite. I went several years without wearing deodorant, but eventually went back. It just doesn't make a good impression in work environments.
 
Pheromones are a real thing and there one of the basic triggers in what makes one sexually attracted to another. When you wear deodorant/perfume/cologne you mask the scent of your pheromones.

I've had experiences where I've gone from just liking a girl to going totally wild over her smell. I've also had the opposite. I went several years without wearing deodorant, but eventually went back. It just doesn't make a good impression in work environments.

Doesn't it only go for girls, though? Cause way back when we were concerned about procreation for survival (and long before we were concerned about wearing out our resources), a guy needed to be able to smell the woman to tell when she was ovulating, and it was usually by the smell of her shit. And while we haven't completely overcome our primal instincts, this is just something I always found way too weird.

But on the same coin, does it matter how the guy smells? I didn't think it does, since back then, sex wasn't exactly "consensual" (i.e. it didn't matter what they thought of us, as long as we were strong enough, we'd be able to get some. Oh, how times change.)
 
From my experience with the local Amish, there is nothing attractive about the smell of a "natural women." It's kill-people-migraine inducing. Freshly showered (though the flavor of the day is nice from time to time) is my preference. I'm sure many women would say the same about men.
 
Doesn't it only go for girls, though? Cause way back when we were concerned about procreation for survival (and long before we were concerned about wearing out our resources), a guy needed to be able to smell the woman to tell when she was ovulating, and it was usually by the smell of her shit. And while we haven't completely overcome our primal instincts, this is just something I always found way too weird.

But on the same coin, does it matter how the guy smells? I didn't think it does, since back then, sex wasn't exactly "consensual" (i.e. it didn't matter what they thought of us, as long as we were strong enough, we'd be able to get some. Oh, how times change.)

Uh where are you getting this info? I've never heard that ovulation could be smelled through shit and frankly that doesn't make any sense. Urine, maybe.

And the idea that sex wasn't consensual in early hominids is outrageous. Rape is not the predominate reproductive strategy amongst any social primates. It is also not very common in hunter gatherer societies.
 
Pheromones are a real thing and there one of the basic triggers in what makes one sexually attracted to another. When you wear deodorant/perfume/cologne you mask the scent of your pheromones.

Pheromones are of negligible importance for humans. I don't go around sniffing women in the butt to find someone who strikes my fancy.
 
normally I don't care too much for how girls smell. I have bad allergies so I can't even smell half the time. However, one day at the grocery store this girl was shopping and she had clearly just come from the gym. And I'll be goddamned if her sweat wasn't the sexiest thing I had ever smelled