Males and Females

That would make a good short story. I might steal it. I like that "she always talks in prose." It doesn't spund like it had much of a chance to work out from the get go and you were letting your hopes shape your perception of reality. But hey, at least you got to hook up with a beautiful woman and have your self esteem boosted.

Well, partially. Part of the reason I couldn't handle her affection towards me was because I knew that the likelihood of it going anywhere was slim at best. I'm pretty sure I was just used as temporary relief from her dissatisfaction with her boyfriend. I was someone who was under the radar because of the distance and she knew that she could get back to the convenience of her boyfriend whenever she wanted (hence the impulsive decision to leave him for me). So do any unusually good-looking women not exploit their physical appeal and charm? This is the second one I've known who does things like this.
 
Sucks about what happened. I went through something very similar a few years ago.

I havnt met a unusually hot woman that doesnt. They all do. But so do men, so whatever. Shit still sucks. People need to be more straight up and honest with their intentions.

As far as sites, I could second OKCupid. You could also try Plenty of Fish. I would stick to one though, you dont want chicks seeing you on multiple sites lol That being said, the hottest women on average are on Match and EHarmony. Both those you got to pay for, fuck that..
 
I don't think people think about shit like that when they're doing it. She tried to play it off as being "misunderstood," followed by some vague reason as to what her true intentions were. Goddess-complex.

I'm browsing OkCupid now. I haven't come across so much as a single remotely cute girl so far, or even any without completely mundane interests.
 
Thats really rough, Obscure. Dont read too much into it, you sound like a good dude, sometimes good dudes just get caught up in the spell of a devil woman. it happens.
 
We should all pitch in a few bucks so one person here can make a match.com account for a month, just to see what happens. It will be like a science project.
 
HowAboutWe.com is a good idea for a dating site, but it requires a subscription to read messages. It's rather easily subverted by putting contact info somewhere in the profile, which some girls do, but if that doesn't happen, there's no way of knowing who the paid profiles are. It seems a little dead too, and there are more conservatives and Christians. It's at least cheap compared to Match. $50 for six months.
 
There are some decent women in this area. Mostly terrible, but you have to look.

I'm over in Fairfield.

Why have we not gotten a beer yet? I think we talked about it ages ago but it never happened.

Found a cute girl who is an atheist and pretty verbose from what I can tell. Might be some potential there.
 
Well, partially. Part of the reason I couldn't handle her affection towards me was because I knew that the likelihood of it going anywhere was slim at best. I'm pretty sure I was just used as temporary relief from her dissatisfaction with her boyfriend. I was someone who was under the radar because of the distance and she knew that she could get back to the convenience of her boyfriend whenever she wanted (hence the impulsive decision to leave him for me). So do any unusually good-looking women not exploit their physical appeal and charm? This is the second one I've known who does things like this.

Few. But can you blame them? I mean most humans exploit their strengths- be they physical, intellectual, emotional, creative- to their benefit.
 
Some girl I messaged like a year ago just randomly sent 'Ur cute. I like ur picture.' I really dislike the use of ur in a first message. I should be flattered though, I guess. I'm cute.
 
I use to work in the Westchester mall (unless there's two WC that I'm aware of in different states). Nice area overall but there's no night life as such. It's a very family oriented neighborhood.

Also, that story really blows. But at least you got a boost in self-esteem. Everyone says OkCupid is cool. Also, I'd totally be down for that project of funding a UM's dating website. Sounds fun.
 
Horseface shitfest numero duo wants a date on monday. I will fucking kill that bitch if she cancels that the fuck again.

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A UM dating site would be hilarious

This always will be a shitty dating advisory centre.