Males and Females

I've been doing pretty good on OKC all of a sudden. Weird. Hopefully getting coffee with a girl here soon and then teaching her how to play some guitar. Only problem is that she's 19 and I generally stay away from girls that can't get a pint with me. There's no fun there.
 
I've been doing pretty good on OKC all of a sudden. Weird. Hopefully getting coffee with a girl here soon and then teaching her how to play some guitar. Only problem is that she's 19 and I generally stay away from girls that can't get a pint with me. There's no fun there.

19 is excellent. Have a pic?
 
I have a gay friend now and am hoping the thing about gay men having a lot of hot female friends is true. He actually told me he was interested in me and thought I might have been gay (although he admitted that he first thought I was Mormon, lol) and even though I have homosexual leanings he isn't my type so I said I was hetero. He talks about sex-related things all the time, so I'm just waiting for the opportunity to admit to being a virgin.

It usually is, especially if he is kinda feminine or has a lot of generally feminine interests. The athletic jock gays tend to have one or two really close female friends, but have more male friends overall. Also, it sounds like you're bisexual tbh. And as dodens once said, there's nothing wrong with a little double dipping.
 
I was kind of into the conversation before. I appreciate both old school ways and new school ways. Let's face it, man or woman, everyone wants to be treated nicely.

Two of my coworkers (who are dating each other) met on OKC. The girl told me she had rated him a perfect rate, and while other guys were sending her well thought out messages about them having so much in common, the guy saw she rated just messaged her with, "hi" But she was so super excited he messaged her and they met up and been going out ever since. I guess being standoffish works for some people :lol:
 
Bleh. I'm kind of frustrated. I'm not old enough for bars, I work most of the week, the town I live in is small, and porn doesn't really turn me on anymore.
 
Mathiäs;10740976 said:
It usually is, especially if he is kinda feminine or has a lot of generally feminine interests. The athletic jock gays tend to have one or two really close female friends, but have more male friends overall. Also, it sounds like you're bisexual tbh. And as dodens once said, there's nothing wrong with a little double dipping.

He's kind of a nerdy gaming gay guy and inquisitive. He's already acquired all sorts of information on my underwear, cock size, masturbation habits, etc.
 
Why do we have to be such losers? Why can't the beautiful women sleep with us? Taking our cocks, having their feet rubbed by us? Spooning with us in the night? What a joke that we'd listen to something like pleasure slave, whilst living a totally sexless and sad existence.
 
Do you actually often try dating? I should probably just go through your post history in this thread, but I actually am mystified why a sexy and clever studman like yourself has such difficulties (unless it's just your impeccable standards). I often crawl into bed crying, telling myself that all I want is a warm and nurturing body to keep me sane and loved at night, dreaming fondly of a love life that goes well beyond mere sexual release, but then I roll onto my stomach and feel a cold chill, not down my spine but on my stomach where I had ejaculated an hour prior. Then I give praise my system of sexual autarky and fall to sleep content in my virginity.
 
God, I hope this doesn't happen to me.

In other news, I think reading about evolutionary psychology is making me misogynistic. The author of this book is talking about the intricacies of how female apes manipulate male apes, and all I can think is "what the fuck does this imply for a species that's far more intelligent? I obviously don't know because I'm male, and most of my experiences with females are my mother I don't get along with and my sister who was pretty damn bitchy growing up."

Perhaps men do need to keep women in line, and that's why the divorce rate is so high. Women's primate brains are going "this man not dominant enough. Me must look more." However, society has placed the evil death blanket over the dominance that would normally win a woman over. So women are afraid of what they want in men, and so they don't have it.

It's 5 AM, and I'm starting to sound like SS.
 
One of the reasons why I like the movie The Night Porter is that the facial expressions Charlotte Rampling puts on in that movie, particularly when the S&M is going down remind me totally of the way a certain girl used to look at me, in university. I'm sure she was some kind of an insatiable nymph. Not the horrendous abrasive prostitute type, just some shy sweety who needed it. She was always wandering around in the places I went to and looking at me expectantly. When she was getting annoyed with her boyfriend, she insinuated she might be able to immediately come and live with me instead, specifying that she'd be sleeping with me and doing the cooking just like with him.
 
Let me tell you what, the #1 least attractive trait in a dude is when he only upholds good manners in the presence of attractive women and treats everyone else like cat chow.
 
Most attractive women find it bizarre when men, like me on a bad day, carry on being a man's man, despite the fact that they're in the room.
 
Let me tell you what, the #1 least attractive trait in a dude is when he only upholds good manners in the presence of attractive women and treats everyone else like cat chow.

Very true. I do the complete opposite; which is why I always have 2-3 really sweet, average looking, chubby chicks in my life lol. Despite all the shit I talk I'll probably end up with one.
 
I've never met a happy and/or pleasant married woman who "wore the pants". I've met plenty of capable women who are very independent *outside* their relationships but who married some sort of a "mans man", and I don't mean merely a burly asshole. Guys both commanding and caring.