Males and Females

69ing sucks.

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I had one perfect 69 where we both came within a minute and yes, we were the same height. Other than that, my experience has been the same as everyone else; better in theory than practice.

Second date with the doctor tonight. Going to a nice wine bar for drinks and dinner.
 
I know it's weird, but I don't like blowjobs. Maybe if I'm about to cum, but I just don't like being still during sex, and the only thing that can get me off besides penetration is masturbating. I also have ADHD, so that may be part of it. When I'm stimulated and I sit still, my mind goes a million places. Oh God, the memories of an ex blowing me and me spacing out and forgetting she was blowing me and going flaccid... Ugh.
 
My objection to 69 is that it defeats the purpose of oral sex, which is for one to be utterly passive and enjoying it while the other delivers. 69 divides the attention.