Nephilim96
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Weird situation that I don't know exactly how to handle...
A few months back this girl came into my work when I wasn't there and asked a coworker of mine if I was single, but my coworker just told her she wasn't aware. Fast forward to today this girl comes in to pick up a photo order she placed, and after I rang her up she handed me a small stuffed polar bear with a note on it saying Happy Holidays on one side and a note saying something basically along the lines of "Hey, I wanna talk to you but I'm nervous, but if you want we can be friends and talk" and then her phone number was on it...
I'm cool with being friends, because friends are most always welcome, but seeing as I'm not single at the moment I feel like I need to communicate this in some way, but I'm not sure how I should go about it.
Obviously I need to say that I'm not available, but I don't know how to set up a situation in which I can do that...because everyone I've talked to about it so far has said to make sure that I talk to her face to face about it, but I don't want to set up some kind of like "Hey lets go grab coffee" or something thing and have her think it is more than it is. I also can't just, as someone else I know suggested, wait around for her to come into the store the next time and make her wait it out...because that would be the dick move of the century.
I actually think you could tell her over the phone. It's not like you're breaking up with her, just tell her about your situation and maybe offer to hang out with her in the future.
But what the fuck do I know...