Didn't you say Grant and I were the hottest dudes on this forum? Are you just full of shit?
Mathiäs;10795809 said:Why do you feel the need to comment about how attractive you think you are on a constant basis? Insecure much?
If your looks suit your personality, you're hot. If they don't, you're not.
There's a 7 year gap between my bf and I, he's 23, I'm nearly 30. There's times i notice it, some things he says and does can be a little immature, but most of the time it's not an issue, he's got a very mature work ethic too.
He like to call me grandma a lot and says I'm a dirty perv cougar though lol cheeky git!
Age as a whole shouldn't really factor into a relationship if both people are say over 18, can't see the prob if a 40yr old dates an 18yr old. If they find things in common and get on maturity wise then good for them I say after all, can't help who you fall for.
I just wouldn't want to waste my time with someone who I don't really have much of a future with. I'd eventually like to have a normal family, and I don't think I could do that with somebody 10+ years older than me, and I wouldn't want to waste that time where I can be courting somebody who I do have a possible future with. I mean, I'd have no problem dating somebody who's a few years older than me, but nobody who's twice my age or anything like that.
None of this would be for a while though. I'm still really young.
The friend zone is a real thing, but has come to mean something else to the rising generation, and that false preconception is what contributes to rape culture.
I'll expand on this later when I'm not in the middle of work.
An 18-year-old with a 40-year-old violates the half-your-age-plus-seven rule. The lowest a 40-year-old can go is 27.
That would make people like Zeph/Butt/Yoda/etc pretty damn hot, so I can't say I agree.
So does the half one's age + 7 'rule' apply to hookups or just dating? Because if an older woman hit on me and she was attractive you bet your ass I'd go for it.
That would make people like Zeph/Butt/Yoda/etc pretty damn hot, so I can't say I agree.
In a way, Zeph is pretty hot, from what I caught of him holding his enormous fucking cat. From what little I've seen of his personality - doesn't start shit, general peace keeper as a mod, doesn't seem to have problems with anyone - he's like a less pussified Toki Wartooth. I can imagine that dude wearing toe socks and being like YEAH motherfucker, I fuckin wear toe socks and love my cat, and I watch nature shows and cry sometimes, but I could bang your gf because I listen to her bitch about coworkers and she fuckin likes my toe socks too.
Laura, no offense or anything, but I have never understood why you stand upon the altar of so many a GMD member, you kinda just look like a normal Japanese gal to me.
Then again, azns are far outside of my sexual wheelhouse.
Maybe this recent criticism is geared towards a different meaning, but I always thought the friendzone was more about a desire for romance than sex. It sucks because of the unrequited feelings, not the lack of sex. And I think it's sexist of women to assume guys are only interested in girls for the sex. Guys put in the effort to be friends because they like the girl and hope they'll eventually win her affections over time. If that affection never comes, that's disappointing. I'm not going to make excuses for those who turn around and call the girl a bitch and say mean things when it doesn't work out. That's a shitty thing to do. But I don't see anything wrong with a guy wanting to end the friendship if it's causing too much emotional distress.
An 18-year-old with a 40-year-old violates the half-your-age-plus-seven rule. The lowest a 40-year-old can go is 27.
I think the "half your age + 7" only applies to the older person.