Males and Females

[King Richard]

So what you're saying is, you're in the same exact position you were about a month ago. Dumbass.

I already told you man, if trying to get this bitch to go on a DATE is like pulling teeth, imagine would it will be like DATING her.

 

[The Ozzman]

So what you're saying is, you're in the same exact position you were about a month ago. Dumbass.

I already told you man, if trying to get this bitch to go on a DATE is like pulling teeth, imagine would it will be like DATING her.

I'm attempting to get some skinny from my buddy. I'll just give a second date a shot. If it doesn't work, then I'm not out much..

 

[Srontgorrth]

Some people are just bad at communication over phone/text etc. Go for it, you have nothing to lose, anyways.

 

[Vimana]

You might as well get paying for a good meal out of it.

 

[Draehl]

Whenever I get stressed over stupid shit like this I just think "I could die tomorrow. What the fuck does what this woman think matters in the grand scheme of things?" and it makes it surprisingly easier. Do it. I don't claim to be the least bit good with women, but that one thing over all helps me nerve up when it's time to ask them out etc.

 

[The Ozzman]

Some people are just bad at communication over phone/text etc. Go for it, you have nothing to lose, anyways.

Whenever I get stressed over stupid shit like this I just think "I could die tomorrow. What the fuck does what this woman think matters in the grand scheme of things?" and it makes it surprisingly easier. Do it. I don't claim to be the least bit good with women, but that one thing over all helps me nerve up when it's time to ask them out etc.

This is my opinion about the whole thing. If nothing happens, then whatever. If something does happen, then I'm dating a hot nurse and fuck y'all

 

[~Derek~]

I don't think it was the mustache . I think that if you had concentrated on conversation with the other girl and included the previous girl it would've been okay.

All a matter of pulling the new girl into a new conversation and taking hold of the situation. The key is to choose your target, and focus on that in a way that is under the table. By capturing the new girl's attention, it shows your alpha male dominance (not I'm a meat headed cunt that will bash anything, but just using your intelligence as a tool).

Just simple conversation of getting to know her shows that you're actually interested in their friendship and their relationship together. Also, it opens up opportunities of understanding how both of their personalities work as friends. It's more of a social experiment but I've always found that it works and it impresses your "target" when you actually try to get to know their friends and that you're not afraid to adapting to different situations.

That's how I see it anyway.

Thanks for the advice. I wish I had someone that would help guide me through all of this stuff in person. Instead of doing it all on my own. I'll keep this advice in mind for the next approach. Which could be tomorrow. Wal Mart on Saturdays is nice.

 

[waif]

Is that your Saturday? Just head to Walmart and start randomly approaching women?

 

[Zephyrus]

My ex is pressuring me to ask out another girl in my Greek class, one I've actually been liking for a while. But sorry, I like my job more.

Ugh.

 

[The Ozzman]

So, the skinny from my friend is that she's still interested. He also asserted that she's just nonchalant about things and doesn't get worked up over stuff. She has also been working more so she can spoil her niece for Xmas from what she has told him.

This would put the missing pieces of the puzzle together somewhat. I just told my friend that I got a vibe she wasn't interested and he suggested that I keep going and see what happens.

 

[sevag00]

In my own experience, nurses are very busy peoeple.

 

[Vimana]

What the hell is "the skinny?"

 

[The Ozzman]

What the hell is "the skinny?"

411
information
etc

 

[waif]

So go for it, Ozz. Not really anything to lose, just try not to get attached unless it's clear she feels the same.

 

[Vimana]

Oh. Here I was thinking it was slang for a shitty joint.

 

[The Ozzman]

So go for it, Ozz. Not really anything to lose, just try not to get attached unless it's clear she feels the same.

It's hard for me to get attached unless I've been dating someone for a while.

 

[Zephyrus]

Lucky you.

 

[Vossyrus]

So, remember how I posted about my recent episode with Hot Nurse? Remember how you all said to forget about her?

Well, against my better judgment, I'm pursuing her. My reasoning is that I never gave her a fair shot and I should at least do that for her (because I'm an idiot/nice guy/whatever).

So, I sent her a text when I was at work last week I think? I asked her when it would be a good time to call her. So, I got a text back about 12 hours later saying to try Friday because she was working the nights in between then. So, Friday night comes up and I go to call and...I get her voicemail. So, I leave a voicemail and I get a text 40 minutes later from her basically saying that she was at her sister's and didn't get good reception, etc etc and to call her tomorrow.

So, tomorrow (Saturday) rolls around and I call her mid afternoon and she answers and asks if she can call me back because she's in the middle of something, so I say sure. 30 mins go by and I get a call back and I basically ask her if she'd be interested in going on a second date and she obliged but she wasn't sure about her schedule because she picked up a shift yadda yadda. So I just told her to get back to me when she had that in order.

Well, we come to Tuesday and I send her a text and say 'So, what's up with your schedule?' and I get a text later that night and she apologized because she was having phone problems and other such things. She said that she was free Monday and Tuesday night so I offered dinner on Tuesday and she said sure and to call her this weekend to iron out the details (Sunday evening).

and here we are. So now I have two days to stew over this, but the length between her texts is getting shorter now, so maybe she's becoming less apprehensive about this second date thing..

Wow. One excuse after another after another...it's like an episode of Seinfeld or something.

I think the only fair thing to do would be to set up a second date, be a no-show, and then give her a string of excuses as to why you couldn't make it.

 

[Vimana]

That's a little too passive-aggressive. Don't you think?

 

[The Ozzman]

Lucky you.

I don't know. I've possessed a loner type personality for so long I think it could be detrimental to my relationships going forward.

I think the only fair thing to do would be to set up a second date, be a no-show, and then give her a string of excuses as to why you couldn't make it.

That's a little too passive-aggressive. Don't you think?

This. I could never bring myself to do that unless someone deserved it. She's busier than I am, so I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt at this point. If she's a no-show for the second date, I'm definitely done though.