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whiskey funeral
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Butt, I don't know your whole woman situation but I think what Ozz said is good advice. I tried the "fuck bitches" thought process for awhile. After breaking up with my son's dad, I was so worried about not being able to find someone. Then one day, I stopped worrying about it all together.
Fast forward to now: I've been with a really awesome guy for about a month and so far he is everything I've ever wanted in another human being. Good things can happen when you least expect them to!
Fast forward to now: I've been with a really awesome guy for about a month and so far he is everything I've ever wanted in another human being. Good things can happen when you least expect them to!
Basically, my woman problem is that I fall really fast and hard, and I don't understand why. I think I've got some sort of chemical imbalance. I was with a girl for a couple months and after I got dumped recently, I took it obscenely hard, far too much so.
But, I'm hoping this anxiety specialist I'm seeing can help me with my faults. I'm hoping to get off meds for good come April.
whiskey funeral
Mother North
Dak
mentat
whiskey funeral
Mother North
Dak
mentat
The eating part's gonna be the hardest to change. I only have decent home-cooked meals about once a week. Aside from that, it's usually cereal, or things like grilled cheese/french toast/scrambled eggs for dinner.
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
I don't think pharmaceuticals will help, but I hope your psychotherapy identifies and addresses what appears to be the issue: you're placing too much value in women toward what constitutes your existential worth. You're investing far too much of yourself in others, and therefore you have next to no control over what is essentially a major part of yourself. Learn to get more out of what you yourself are and do, and the chemical imbalance will readjust.
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
On a totally-unrelated note, are any of you in LDR's who like to Skype with their partners? I do that twice or thrice a week and was wondering what sort of games/fun activities (besides the obvious) you like to do. Obviously I have the internet to consult, but you guys are more our type of people.
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
Jimmy... Dead.
contemplative curmudgeon
Drinking games are really fun on Skype. It gets weird.
Do you guys each have an xbox? Playing games and talking on the mic can always be a good time.
monoxide_child
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@ The Butt, honestly i actually, think this^^^ is your problem
instead of "falling hard" for a girl who's not gonna fuck you, and then crying about it when she decides her celibacy is going to be permanant, just get up and go get laid, seriously, just come to USA and buy the services of a few hookers
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
We usually have a beer or two together, but we have much more fun drinking in person. Drinking games are most fun with groups of people, but I'll research some two-person ones. We don't play video games, unfortunately.
viewerfromnihil
Vein-Marbled Tower
I'm skeptical of the "chemical imbalance" explanation for anybody other than those relegated medical facilities for mental disorders. For one, there are no numbers to back up the claims. You can't get a test that will confirm or deny a chemical imbalance. It crosses me as a pharmaceutical industry marketing scheme, a rather convincing one, perpetuated by psychiatrists who are desperate for a cure for imaginary problems. The entire practice of psychiatry has gotten pathetic, they've all turned into drug dealers.
Good luck with the anxiety specialist. Hopefully they give real treatment, and not just a piece of paper to take to the pharmacy.
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
That's all psychiatrists and "anxiety specialists" (codeword for psychiatrist) do. They get paid to prescribe medicine and couldn't care less about how to deal with your problems. The more visits you make to them, which are solely for the purpose of calibrating your medicinal intake, the more money they make.
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