Males and Females

Onder, it sounds like you have some self-esteem issues. Unless she's a virgin, plow that shit! Just tap it before you cap it. Don't want you to be a babydaddy.

EDIT: Now that I'm rereading it, I see she mentioned you impregnating her to have your baby. Honestly, that's some fucked up shit. If she won't offer it up to you now she shouldn't be saying shit like that. Run for the hills, dude. Seriously.

I'm not here for advice tbh. I don't think I have self-esteem issues. I know that girl better than you seem to think. It's not like I met her for the first time that day.
 
You shoulda let on a little more. I guess I just assumed since I would have reacted differently if it were me. Sorry man.

And sorry that I tend to give advice regardless. I support your decisions whatever you do. Especially since I'm a complete failure with women and have no authority to give advice with anything, except an (almost) bachelors degree in psychology.
 
Okay now I'm gonna post my own issues here...

I was at a party tonight... had some drinks as well as few klonopins... not too crazy, but I FINALLY GOT THE BALLS TO MESSAGE GIRLS ON OKCUPID. Still awaiting a message, but maybe something good will come out of this?? I'm just so desperate to meet new girls in my area now that I've moved back, I really have no other options...

Also gonna checkout meetup, and see who else is interested in going to metal shows in my area. You can't go wrong there.
 
You shoulda let on a little more. I guess I just assumed since I would have reacted differently if it were me. Sorry man.

No prob, it's a thing with forum discussions about dating. People assume others need advice if they talk about their private life and then it becomes all teenage magazine. It's rarely A: I just fucked my girlfriend from behind B: High five bro, I used to fuck that one too but now I have a different girlfriend.
 
take you to Amsterdam. I hear the "coffee shops" there are pretty wild...

not really "wild" at all really
the weed shops in Amsterdam sell the specific kind of weed that makes everyone really really mellowed out where you go into the shop and everyone's totally half-asleep
 
I heard you could also legally buy magic mushrooms...Anyone know if thats true or not?

i don't know anything about that, i just remember my friend going to Amsterdam and coming back with a video of a "coffee shop" crammed full of half-asleep people with a long bench wrapped around the outside of the building, which was also filled mellow-stoned people that were too fucked up to walk
 
No prob, it's a thing with forum discussions about dating. People assume others need advice if they talk about their private life and then it becomes all teenage magazine. It's rarely A: I just fucked my girlfriend from behind B: High five bro, I used to fuck that one too but now I have a different girlfriend.

Don't worry, I knew you weren't asking for my advice, was just offering some input.

I'm sorta hoping for the same with my own situation. I'll feel free to take anyone's advice, though no guarantees I'll follow through on it haha.
 
not really "wild" at all really
the weed shops in Amsterdam sell the specific kind of weed that makes everyone really really mellowed out where you go into the shop and everyone's totally half-asleep

Well my little sister went there last year and smoked hash. Or at least my older sister asked her if she did and she giggled.

Anyway, to bring this back to the original subject but not completely changing course, I've found I ALWAYS have to hide my smoking from girls. Just makes them uncomfortable for some reason. Why is it such a problem with them?
 
I've found I ALWAYS have to hide my smoking from girls. Just makes them uncomfortable for some reason. Why is it such a problem with them?

you're dating the wrong girls
just go find a female that smokes weed and you 2 can smoke together

seriously, i've met alot more female potheads than male ones
 
I guess because most chicks don't smoke weed with each other like guys do. Maybe it's kind of a male bonding thing?
 
Personally, I don't care if my girlfriend doesn't smoke weed, I just don't want her criticizing me for doing it.

Luckily, on OkCupid they ask questions about that stuff... unfortunately I still haven't had any luck yet...