Males and Females

Yeah, m_c has loads of privilege. Living under a bridge and on the dole and all. The word privilege has become completely useless due to overuse and misapplication, like so many other words seized by the mealy-mouthed.
 
If it's any encouragement I was in a somewhat similar situation a year ago where I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. I realized I was only with her because of habit, comfort and a sense that I was her only true emotional support.

Well a year later I've grown an insane amount and am so, so happy with my decision. Also, from what I can tell my ex has grown a ton as well. That's not to say it's not extremely difficult at first, but that stage passes. After being with someone for so long, it can be a really empowering to have your life be primarily about yourself again. And there's all those things that you care about that you've put to the side to give time to your relationship, fighting, trying to resolve issues etc. Getting all that time back is fucking awesome. From everything your saying it sounds like this is a great time in your life to put the priority back on yourself.

Yeah its definitely encouraging, and all the signs in my life are telling me that we both are at a crossroad...Its just taking the first step thats the hardest...
 
Yeah, m_c has loads of privilege. Living under a bridge and on the dole and all. The word privilege has become completely useless due to overuse and misapplication, like so many other words seized by the mealy-mouthed.

Has a serious comment ever been made with that dancing emote?
 
so i've been hanging out with this oreo girl that i think is as-sexy-as-hell

several days ago she flat-out told me that she's never gonna have sex with me

and then, just a couple of min ago, she talked me into letting her move in with me when me and the other guy (who is friends with her) rent a motel room

so
yesterday afternoon, right after i got offline, this oreo girl^^ tells me that "this morning" she found out she was pregnant

she hasn't seen the father of the baby in 2 weeks
has no intention no intention of getting back together with him
and she fucked some other guy a mere 12 hours after a hospital told her that she was pregnant

i thought she was hot, so i'm a little pissed that the guy she fucked wasn't me, but i'm much more pissed about the fact that the guy used my money to bribe her into having sex with him where she's now expecting me to buy her a bunch of shit when i get my money at midnight
 
so
yesterday afternoon, right after i got offline, this oreo girl^^ tells me that "this morning" she found out she was pregnant

she hasn't seen the father of the baby in 2 weeks
has no intention no intention of getting back together with him
and she fucked some other guy a mere 12 hours after a hospital told her that she was pregnant

i thought she was hot, so i'm a little pissed that the guy she fucked wasn't me, but i'm much more pissed about the fact that the guy used my money to bribe her into having sex with him where she's now expecting me to buy her a bunch of shit when i get my money at midnight

So are you going to live together in the motel with the whore's baby?
 
she hasn't seen the father of the baby in 2 weeks
has no intention no intention of getting back together with him
and she fucked some other guy a mere 12 hours after a hospital told her that she was pregnant

this oreo girl^^ is officiall a jumper
she's already got a replacement lined up for the guy she fucked last night
 
Unfortunately I know way too many people like this (though I don't associate with them... just find them amusing.) Sounds like you're in a sticky situation there, Monoxide.

My current issue: my girl keeps talking about how fat she is. IT'S THE MOST ANNOYING THING EVER. Like it's all she cares about. I know a lot of girls who do this but she takes this to a completely different level. And I haven't seen her in almost a week. There's a sick show with some local bands I want to take her to tomorrow, but I'm just so afraid she'll make an excuse to get out of going.

She also makes bank babysitting for rich kids while I'm still trying to find a job. I can't afford to take her anywhere. Fuck this chivalry bullshit.
 
Unfortunately I know way too many people like this (though I don't associate with them... just find them amusing.) Sounds like you're in a sticky situation there, Monoxide.

well
at first i didn't think the situation was "sticky" because she's already decided that she'll "never fuck me"
she just wants to live with me
but she's not gonna be able to move in with me because she just now (5 min ago) just "broke-up" with the guy that she wasn't "dating" till aprox 24 hours ago (guy with money that wants to split rent with me)
also
she won't be able to move in with me because she's never met the guy that's calling himself my "money manager"
 
My current issue: my girl keeps talking about how fat she is. IT'S THE MOST ANNOYING THING EVER. Like it's all she cares about. I know a lot of girls who do this but she takes this to a completely different level. And I haven't seen her in almost a week. There's a sick show with some local bands I want to take her to tomorrow, but I'm just so afraid she'll make an excuse to get out of going.

She also makes bank babysitting for rich kids while I'm still trying to find a job. I can't afford to take her anywhere. Fuck this chivalry bullshit.

she's dating you
so just tell her that you don't want her to loose any weight because you're turned-on by the weight she is now

also
if she's making more money than you
then she should be willing to pay for your dates