Males and Females

Fetlife definitely seems like a social network first, a porn site second, and a dating site third. It's useful to have a profile, since sometimes you can use it to see girls from OkCupid naked.

I actually got hit up by a cutie with all sorts of dirty pics and then she showed me her OKC profile which included face pics so now I basically know what she looks like naked. Also I think she wants me to spank her, so that's cool.
 
In response to the quote in Master O Lightning's sig

Wouldn't date a girl that's sleeping outside

I mean, wouldn't she be covered in fleas ticks lice bedbugs etc etc??
 
i hate porn. fucking porn. i don't mean that in some simple ban born blah blah boobs are naughty sense.

videodrome and war propaganda porn kind of opened my eyes to how shitty this stuff is for your mind.
 
the minority that controls the world controls your mind, for you, love is dead, all that matters in the death cult and your rituals of exercising your hatred of women by dirtying the image of the ideal woman in your mind.
 
the minority that controls the world controls your mind, for you, love is dead, all that matters in the death cult and your rituals of exercising your hatred of women by dirtying the image of the ideal woman in your mind.
Damn dude
You're psychoanalysis me based on a 4-word post!?!?
LOL
 
I actually got hit up by a cutie with all sorts of dirty pics and then she showed me her OKC profile which included face pics so now I basically know what she looks like naked. Also I think she wants me to spank her, so that's cool.

I checked Fetlife out, and the thing that annoys me is the fact that you can't search for people by gender/age/role or whatever. It would be really helpful if you had that option. Other than that, it's a good site.
 
I checked Fetlife out, and the thing that annoys me is the fact that you can't search for people by gender/age/role or whatever. It would be really helpful if you had that option.

This sounds really weird
Why would registration ask you for your age and gender and role if you can't use these criteria to search for other people, I thought FetLife was a dating site
Or is it mostly just the forums??
 
the minority that controls the world controls your mind, for you, love is dead, all that matters in the death cult and your rituals of exercising your hatred of women by dirtying the image of the ideal woman in your mind.

How is me watching porn exercising my hatred of women dirtying the image of the ideal woman?

I really dont see how its bashing women, if both parties consent to have sex on camera, produce and sell it.

EDIT: And if I remember correctly, this is addressed to a person who used to have a pic of women's legs (hopefully a woman) in his avatar...
 
This sounds really weird
Why would registration ask you for your age and gender and role if you can't use these criteria to search for other people, I thought FetLife was a dating site
Or is it mostly just the forums??
I mean, facebook asks you for the same info but doesn't let you search for people like that. FetLife wants to be a community more than a dating site - it literally says it's not a meat market. You're supposed to make friends through various subforums and then bang or something. Although of course there are numerous subforums dedicated to personals, and I fully intend to use it as a meat market.
 
If you're looking for someone specific, you can hope they have the same or similar username to something else (OkC, tumblr, reddit) or you can laboriously browse by location, looking for an age/gender match, and even then some of the profiles you might want to look at are restricted. This is harder in Chicago than it might be in some other location.

I don't think I could pull the trigger on having identifiable photos up on there. I'm sort of amazed how many people actually do.
 
I have pictures of my face, but no nudes or anything. I don't plan on running for office or anything, so fuck it. I'm not ashamed of my kinks (it helps that none of them are overly unconventional) and my face is kind of an asset.

Some people put up dirty pics without their face showing, which puzzles me because if you then meet someone irl they've already seen you naked...although I guess if you're meeting up irl you're probably gonna bang so whatever. Some people post nudes + face, which just strikes me as a bad idea but then again if women didn't make poor decisions about revealing images the internet would be a much less interesting place, so...god bless.
 
My face doesn't get me laid on OkC, so it's of no use to post on Fetlife, that's for sure. I get why people would rather post faceless nudes than nudeless faces. The risk of a family member or co-worker finding that page is more embarrassing. Yes, they would be on there too, but still, finding out your cousin's or co-worker's kinks is a lot more awkward than finding out they want to meet people to date on a conventional site.

Speaking of poor decisions, more Aly Michalka pictures were out today. I normally don't give a shit about the Nick/Disney girls, but this one is prettier, and I enjoyed her on the short-lived CW show Hellcats. She was a hotter blonde, and the pics aren't completely revealing, but it's still pretty hot stuff.