So I've been thinking about what dating actually is when it's stripped down to its primal core. Firstly, if women were as easily aroused as men, monogamy would completely disappear, the word "pervert" would cease to have an entry in the dictionary, and there would be a whole lot of free fucking. I guess that kind of goes without saying, but it leads into my next point. Since women do not have an insatiable sex drive like men, they require a little extra by way of being treated like princesses. Men are willing to put forth the effort for a consistent lay. Yadayada "emotional" connection, whatever. I have an emotional connection with my parents but I don't want to bang them.
It's just another over-hyped euphemism to make people think there's something "spiritually" significant about monogamy. There isn't. It's the end result of a mating call and a way to deny the fact that there will always be the threat of someone else.
I've always felt the same way about "making love." Nobody can confidently describe what that is. Slow and gentle fucking is still fucking. It's still primal hedonism that has nothing to do with intimacy. Sure, it's awesome but I'm sick of people trying to mask it to be something more deep and meaningful than it is. It's just an attempt to bypass the fact that it's raunchy, fun, and "sinful" shit you do with your bodies. There's nothing wrong with admitting that it's all fucking at the end of the day.
And yeah, I know I "just don't get it" because I don't. Exclusivity in relationships comes with all sorts of disasters that I shouldn't have to mention here, which makes me wonder why people persistently chase this overly-sentimental "requirement" for happiness. Time to move on people! You can't get away with cheating in the cell phone/internet age.
