Males and Females

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So it's finally explicit that I am no longer taken by someone. I wasn't happy that my current situation was going to continue how it was even though we were both under agreement that's what was going to happen. I guess I just didn't want to put my life on hold for her anymore because it's going to be a while before she has her shit together again (it wasn't even together when we met, but that's a different story). She even implied that she didn't know why I was putting my life on hold for her and I just said 'Let's see what happens'. We were going to go to the Nile show together next week but that's probably not going to happen now.

I feel better because now there's no pressure from either individual to meet certain expectations. It was going south for a long time and she gave up some time ago but I cared about her a lot so we tried to keep it going.

I would explain the entire situation but it will be a wall of text, tl;dr type thing. I may do it later if and when I get really bored. It was an 18 month ordeal roughly with tons of weird shit thrown into the mix.
 
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Oh wow eh? :/

That's just conjecture. I've always been suspicious that there was something she wasn't telling me but at least now I don't have to worry about it.

Krig obviously knows, but dating a woman with multiple children (who are around, ie: not living with a divorced parent or some shit) is very difficult.
 
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I'm not sure how widespread this is, but I've encountered attitudes about sex I find weird.

Like I was hanging out with this one girl and we were gonna have sex, but she was worried about feelings and I told her that wasn't an issue with me, and she was like, "yeah, some people just don't see it that way. We're just helping each other out."

That isn't the first time I heard that phrase. But that's something I'd say when my neighbor mows part of my lawn that I missed and I do the same for them.

I don't think of sex as a favor any more than someone playing me music. It's not meant to fix some kind of deficit, but something I do because I like it. Horniness isn't like an unmowed lawn.

Do some people see their own sexuality as some kind of self-imposed tax? Sex is a form of connection like conversation, and I've never heard someone refer to conversation that way.

Second, when people say "he/she is big/small" or whatever referring to their genitals. We don't say that about any other part of our bodies. I've heard people from Asia and the Midwest say the same kind of thing. The first time a girl asked me "how big are you?" my knee jerk reaction was like, "uhhh, that sounds weird. Is this ordinary English? Am I my penis?"
 
We don't say that about any other part of our bodies. I've heard people from Asia and the Midwest say the same kind of thing. The first time a girl asked me "how big are you?" my knee jerk reaction was like, "uhhh, that sounds weird. Is this ordinary English? Am I my penis?"

A lot of men in the past used to judge women based on the size of their eyes. It was quite a large cultural thing. Especially among Mongolians.
 
But do they literally say "how big are you?" The fact that "you" replaces "your penis" weirds me out.
 
How big are your penis?

It's because a man is his phallus and he shall be measured by the strength, length, girth and might of his love truncheon.
 
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