Males and Females

[CiG]

You don't have to do that.

 

[zabu of nΩd]

Are you suggesting an alternative way of meeting women, or that I simply resign myself to forever alone?

 

[CiG]

I'm saying you don't have to do what you're doing.

 

[zabu of nΩd]

Thanks, Zhuangzi

 

[Funerary_Doom]

I don't know if that's necessarily true, the aging = good or bad depending on men/women.

I think personally for men we become less capable of "doing things" for others, our backs go out, we get fucked knees etc and women become less capable of getting others to "do things" for them because as looks fade, the less you're able to use them to your advantage.

Of course I also don't think it's like that for all people, maybe not even most.

Well, for sure it depends on the person and even genetics. And i suppose there might be some truth to that (being less capable of doing things/getting things), but I see it happening with quite a few girlfriends i know turning 30. I suppose a lot of people will always perceive themselves much worse then what they really are.

@zabu of nΩd: i suppose the online world is ridiculous and works soooo much differently. there's very few people i'd want to know as people online much less dating (can already see the hot mess), but a lot of people have made it work. basically what i'm saying is hey, do you.

 

[CiG]

Well, for sure it depends on the person and even genetics. And i suppose there might be some truth to that (being less capable of doing things/getting things), but I see it happening with quite a few girlfriends i know turning 30. I suppose a lot of people will always perceive themselves much worse then what they really are.

For sure. I see it in older males I know, a certain feeling of uselessness as they get older and their bodies begin to fight them. There's probably a reason older women like to go after younger men, probably because the aging process is romanticised by young guys and the life experience appeals to inexperienced people, whereas people the women's age see through most of that or whatever.

I've always said men objectify women as trophies and women objectify men as tools and as we get older we notice more strongly how we are no longer being objectified in that way and of course it's all linked with our self-worth. Pretty fucked up really.

 

[Dak]

Men aren't usually broken at 30 (peak possible physical age is 32 iirc), whereas for most women there's a noticeable difference between equally fit 30 year old and 20 year old. Men gain SMV as they age if A. They stay reasonably fit and/or B. They advance their careers. Women have almost no way to advance their SMV past 18-24ish, they can only try to slow the loss by staying as fit as possible and/or reduce their reluctance to "try new things". This was a given for centuries (except probably shift the ages even younger for men and especially women), but is pretty "wrongthinkish" now.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

FD is right. Men are like houses, Women are like cars. But if an old bitch is a dirty freak in the bedroom she's a god damn 85 Monte Carlo SS

 

[Dak]

Basically what I said but in one sentence.

 

[Funerary_Doom]

@CASSETTEISGOD dang. that shit is bleak as fuck.

What's SMV?

 

[CiG]

I agree with that for sure, it's pretty obvious considering it's normal for older men to be with younger women and not the other way around.

 

[Dak]

What's SMV?

"Sexual Market Value".

 

[Funerary_Doom]

Ahh okay. Yeah i agree with that Dak, especially now that everyone is suddenly a gym rat or fitness guru. The one thing you have some sorta control over is your body, so it makes sense how people now are focusing on staying fit. Kudos to those who have a good workout/fitness routine as that takes tons of willpower and dedication.

 

[SentinelSlain]

I don't think the cars analogy is very technically accurate because cars beyond a certain age don't depreciate but rise in value so long as the condition remains the same.

 

[The Ozzman]

I don't think the cars analogy is very technically accurate because cars beyond a certain age don't depreciate but rise in value so long as the condition remains the same.

So Cougars?

 

[Internally Deformed]

I like mongoloid bitches that know that's what they are and embrace it, by eating roadkill or wearing cut-off denim short-shorts, rather than pretending they're hot and normal. Drink moonshine bitch or F.O.A.D.

Oh so we're talking white trash, not this:

 

[CiG]

No I'm not talking about mongolians.

 

[Internally Deformed]

Mongoloid =/= Mongolian

 

[CiG]

Who gives a fuck. You know what I mean you overly literal dipshit.

 

[SentinelSlain]

So Cougars?

Well not really. Would you bone a 90 year old kim cattral?