Males and Females

[The Ozzman]

Said some things while drunk on NYE to some female friends I know that were misconstrued. I apologized to both:

One said it's okay (but that can be woman speak for 'I'm still pissed').

The other is still pissed off at what I said but has always misconstrued things I've said to her over text message (because being an INTJ sucks sometimes) and still continued to do so even after I pointed out that it was happening (no, I'm not at all gaslighting either). I've also told her that I sometimes say something and when it's taken the wrong way, I typically don't mean it in a 'derisive' or 'malicious' tone. I'm just very direct and it bothers people sometimes. I don't like sugar coating things with people I've known for a long time because they should know me well enough and understand that's how I am. Pretty much wrote me off which is funny because she's expressed numerous times that she has a crush on me and would like to date me but I never in a million years would want to be in a serious relationship with her because of events like this. You would think after knowing someone for 6+ years that you would try to work things like that out if you really cared, especially for something pretty innocuous, but I guess not. No wonder she's divorcing. She also works at the same company I do and I'm done dipping my pen in the company ink anyway, so:

 

[Carpe Mortem]

Ya know, men think they want independent women... you really don't. Your egos can't handle someone who might just have hobbies of their own and love to fuck off into them for hours at a time. But I suppose it's the same the other way around, as I have seen many a strong woman become needy and pathetic when faced with an independence greater than her own.

 

[TechnicalBarbarity]

Yeah but he's on point with a lot of things.

very rarely. the guy is a complete joke most of the time.

 

[no country for old wainds]

i want a woman roughly as independent as myself, personally. i'm cool with my gf fucking off into her hobbies (K-POP!!) for hours at a time because i wanna do the same with mine. clingy insecure whiners and loveless narcissistic bitches can equally fuck off in my book.

 

[HamburgerBoy]

I think a female demonstrated interest in me today, or at least exhibited flirtatious behavior perhaps for practice or out of biological habit. I was driving home through my neighborhood and there was this super-attractive girl walking in my direction, the kind of attractive I don't even really find attractive because it looks too expensive, tan still very European like a Jessica Alba type or whatevs, model-type looks without the grotesque exaggerated features often found in models. Anyways, she was wearing some kind of dress and I swear she pulled it down to one side to reveal a bare shoulder, and she was definitely looking at me for at least a bit. I thought the shoulder thing could have also just been the wind or maybe I just didn't notice it and imagined she had moved it, and it's not that unusual for a person to make eye contact with a passing car in the same neighborhood, but as I drove past her I immediately checked my rear view mirror and saw that she was just beginning to turn forwards, meaning she had turned her head/torso around to apparently look at me as I passed.

 

[CiG]

I have no problem with independent women, my biggest problem is meeting a woman that is genuinely as tough and strong as she acts.

 

[Funerary_Doom]

What makes me annoyed is when you know something pretty well (in my case stuff pertaining to health and nutrition or most things science related) and then your partner doesn't want to take you seriously and want to argue with you. I don't know shit about sports but I know what I know. People should trust their partners knowledge on things.

Also, in my case I do sometimes feel like my partner depends on me for most decisions. Like hell ask me if he should pick up a shift or something. Sometimes there's no way for me to know what would be the best option. Yet he'll argue with me tooth and fucking nail about something I'm 100% sure on, and be wrong and strong.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

Ya know, men think they want independent women... you really don't. Your egos can't handle someone who might just have hobbies of their own and love to fuck off into them for hours at a time. But I suppose it's the same the other way around, as I have seen many a strong woman become needy and pathetic when faced with an independence greater than her own.

All I want is a woman that sucks my cock like she's dying and my cum is the antidote. That's all. Independent, dependent, smart, stupid.. I don't care.

 

[SentinelSlain]

I would be a bit irked if my wife was like, no fuck off, no cuddles for you, im doin mah knittinz.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

But wouldn't you sometimes do the same to her? I don't care how good cuddles are, if you're balls deep in something else it's pretty hard to drop it just because your partner is bored or horny, when you're perfectly content doing what you're doing. That's nobody's problem except theirs. A relationship's purpose shouldn't be entertainment, it should be companionship.

 

[The Ozzman]

Depends on how important the 'something' is. Typically if a partner is horny or something, I drop everything and help satiate that desire.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

My relationship is a little weird in that we're both openly selfish and work off a barter and betting system. It works very well for us, it keeps things fair and is actually pretty fun. Sex and cuddles aren't an allowed trading tool due to the preferred spontaneous nature though so I guess my example was poor.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

Relationships amirite?

 

[The Butt]

Honestly fuck dating, I've decided the hoe life is the go life.

 

[CiG]

All I want is a woman that sucks my cock like she's dying and my cum is the antidote. That's all. Independent, dependent, smart, stupid.. I don't care.

You sound like you want to be fucked over.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

Been there dude, I came out of it a great man

and if you're gonna go for hoes you go all the way, bottom of the barrel - strippers, drug addicts and girls with hobbies

if all fails expose yourself to kids

 

[Manic Ferocity]

i want a woman roughly as independent as myself, personally. i'm cool with my gf fucking off into her hobbies (K-POP!!) for hours at a time because i wanna do the same with mine. clingy insecure whiners and loveless narcissistic bitches can equally fuck off in my book.

Sounds like my last ex. Talk about Diabolical Fullmoon Narcissicm.

 

[Dak]

 

[Funerary_Doom]

My relationship is a little weird in that we're both openly selfish and work off a barter and betting system. It works very well for us, it keeps things fair and is actually pretty fun. Sex and cuddles aren't an allowed trading tool due to the preferred spontaneous nature though so I guess my example was poor.

Barter and betting system? Lord have mercy i would get dripped every time! I actually want to understand the barter and betting system but I don't think it's an appropriate question to ask

 

[Talos of Atmora]

I actually want to understand the barter and betting system but I don't think it's an appropriate question to ask

I'd bet it's still more safe for work than arg's sexual escapades.