I love some hip hop, probably mainly because of the groove, which in turns has influenced the way I play guitar and bass guitar (I like to add bits of groove and funk to my playing), but as a metalhead (well really I think I'm just a fan o rock music as a whole, but eh, I guess it's just safe to say you're a metalhead if you're on ultimatemetal.com
) it's not really a genre I listen to a broad range of artists from.
But what Ermz says is really true. The fact is the average person isn't all that intelligent and just likes/believes anything accessible that's handed to them.
As someone that turned 21 last year, it wasn't long ago I was in high school.
Fact is I saw a lot of that stuff Ermin is talking about at school.
For many kids it was just a constant race to be the toughest, coolest, most badass kid in school.
It's hard to see it if you're one of them, but from the external view of mine, the outcast, weird kid that didn't fit in, it was clear to see.
Many people see and hear the exaggerated films, and music, absorb it and attempt to become it.
Then what you get here, is people just living their life as if in a constant movie, or music video clip.
The girls talking in class constantly about the guys they dated, who they fucked, what parties they went too, how drunk/drugged up they got.......just living the American overdramatic film.
The guys talking about how much they got while shop lifting, who/how many people they beat up, how they escaped from the cops........same shit, just living in a fantasy, film/video clip land.
It can be thing passed down through a generation, or just something that came up in the current generation, whatever.
And it becomes so commonplace to behave in this way, that many people just accept this as normal behavior and a normal way of going about your day.
And I guess, to an extent, as a kid who was angry with this bullshit, I was ultimately drawn to heavy metal. I liked how a lot of it was just so real, no bullshit. Pure, raw fucking human emotion, not something out of a dreamy, exaggerated world. Yet at the same time, it was something that was able to laugh at itself.
I know that sounds a bit cheesy and "gay", but I imagine maybe that's something some of you other guys here experienced too.
While maybe my life didn't (and perhaps still doesn't) seem exciting from a superficial point of view, at least I can wake up each morning and know I can take the opportunity to improve myself in some way, try something new and creative and be at least somewhat content with that progress.
To me that's far more fulfilling, meaningful and special than going to a party every night and getting wasted (that's not to say I haven't done that before, because I had my time as a teen who felt lost too but luckily I was able to see through it eventually), or standing around train stations like a lot of dickheads around my area do seeing who's the next person you can beat up or steal from.
And it saddens me a lot of people don't get to feel those special, deeper feelings (I'm reluctant to say that in fear of sounding pretentious, but eh I know who I am as a human being and I know I'm not pretentious)