I don't think this thread was really about "do you or do you not like moshing", so I will answer Risquit's question based on California gigs.
@Risquit - I am assuming you will go to the Cane's show in San Diego. If you do, I went last year. By ANY and ALL means, do NOT get anywhere near the front! You will get killed. It is insanely squishy up there and a LOT of moshing and/or pushing and/or crowdsurfing people there. Basically, you are fucked at any gig in California, it is ALWAYS brutal, except when they did the acoustic gigs. Cane's was bad. You could, however, stand near the front, but be on the right side of the stage (when you are looking at the stage). That part wasn't too bad at all, just lots of people. If you want to be able to see the band at all, I suggest you get in the club and in the front EARLY. Just an FYI, Cane's will NOT let you re-enter the club (in other words, no ins/outs). I have gotten SEVERELY injured at more than one Opeth gig (and a whole shitload more gigs without Opeth), so let that be something that helps you decide where to stand as well. I won't get into the moshing/crowdsurfing argument.