Let me phrase this in a manner that doesn't come off in a gay "dear livejournal" way.
Lately I've been analyzing my outlook on life and found a recurring theme. Many things in life that others consider essential or of utmost importance I see as little more than a waste in effort or simply an inconvenience. I don't mean that necessarily in a negative or depressing way, but rather that I'm generally happier with the lower effort alternative. Let me a give a few examples.
Florida is better than the pool. The concert is better than the DVD. The bar is better than beer at a friend's house. A good date is better than staying home. Yet, driving 6 hours, driving an hour + ticket price + dealing with most moron metalheads, paying bar prices, and dealing with bitches and or simply incompatible women isn't worth the additional enjoyment.
It's probably a combination of already being rather happy with the status quo (I'm easily entertained by the simpler/cheaper things in life like movies, games, music) and being easily bothered by random bullshit, and as such (to put it in scientific terms) I can't see how the marginal utility of doing something "better" is worth the marginal effort in order to do it.
I've found it's a mixed bag. I'm personally rather happy overall since as I said before I'm rather easily entertained and not often bored, but I find it's an outlook that doesn't play well with others and tends to annoy my friends/family. Would anyone else say you're blessed/cursed (depending on your outlook) by this particular mindset?
Lately I've been analyzing my outlook on life and found a recurring theme. Many things in life that others consider essential or of utmost importance I see as little more than a waste in effort or simply an inconvenience. I don't mean that necessarily in a negative or depressing way, but rather that I'm generally happier with the lower effort alternative. Let me a give a few examples.
- Driving 6 hours to Florida to go to the beach vs. going to a local pool.
- Driving an hour to go see a band vs watching a concert DVD.
- Going to a bar to drink vs. buying beer and drink at a friend's house.
- Going out on a date vs. chilling out at home.
Florida is better than the pool. The concert is better than the DVD. The bar is better than beer at a friend's house. A good date is better than staying home. Yet, driving 6 hours, driving an hour + ticket price + dealing with most moron metalheads, paying bar prices, and dealing with bitches and or simply incompatible women isn't worth the additional enjoyment.
It's probably a combination of already being rather happy with the status quo (I'm easily entertained by the simpler/cheaper things in life like movies, games, music) and being easily bothered by random bullshit, and as such (to put it in scientific terms) I can't see how the marginal utility of doing something "better" is worth the marginal effort in order to do it.
I've found it's a mixed bag. I'm personally rather happy overall since as I said before I'm rather easily entertained and not often bored, but I find it's an outlook that doesn't play well with others and tends to annoy my friends/family. Would anyone else say you're blessed/cursed (depending on your outlook) by this particular mindset?