A: thats a cool and pretty wierd question. Im not sure in so far as if she acted nice but didnt actually love me I might think she was playing me for a fool, or wasnt comitted, but If I knew I was loved even though their treatment of me was unfair, Id still feel I had a blanket (their love) and hopefully if the way they were treating me began to effect my personality they'd choose to treat me better. So Id rather know they were very close even if they treated me badly.
Q: Same.