Yes, Im Larry the guitarist for ND, pleasure to meet you!
I know exactly what you mean, and ironically with ISIS I had the same experience of not knowing what to make of it at first. I can definately say that ND is one of those bands that falls into that category....I cant tell you how many times I've had people say that they listened to us and didn't like it as much at first, or know what to make of it, but then when they listened to our cds more, they really started to get it and sometimes even love it, which is always the highest compliment. So by all means, give it time and see how it affects you....
I would definately recommend for you or anyone else out there that our best cds to begin with would be "To Welcome The Fade" or "The Knowing", not only because they are newer and more representative of where we are at now, but I think the material is stronger overall and its also probably a bit more likely to appease a wider audience.....That being said, I think "Of Sculptured Ivy and Stone Flowers" is one of the most drastically overlooked and underappreciated cds to come out in recent years. I don't feel conceited saying that because I didnt play on it and I heard it in its entirety before I joined ND, and hearing how good it is made me want to join the band.