Sigh...emotions/relationships/love

Maybe you need a good

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Oh well. Relationships aren't for everyone, as is living single. Everyone is made for, or even more, needs one or another. You seem to fit in the later. Okay, I've been in a relationship for the last 2 years and a half and, when things got bad, I've sometimes been asking myself if continuing this was the best idea, but the idea of me loving her wasn't questionable. In your case, it is, kinda proves the point that you don't need the "you're-the-one-I-love" thing, which is the whole point of being in a stable relationship...

EDIT : I don't know why, but I feel my argument lost some impact after those latest posts XD
 
My bad ...

ok look, the best piece of advice has already been given ...

if she says she loves you and you don't feel the same about her, she's not the right one, plain and simple. It doesn't make you weird or fucked up ... or her. When you meet the right person, you'll know it. That being the case, if you're kinda stringing this chick along somehow indirectly given her a reason to think you DO love her or whatever, thats not good for either of you. I'm sure after being with her for several years you at least care about her and her feelings, even if not on a level you would call "love". That being the case, you DO have some level of responsibility towards her feelings. You should talk to her about all of it, with no bullshit. She may want out and if she does, thats probably best for both of you. Even if she doesn't, thats not the best thing but at least you can feel good knowing you put it out there and were 100% honest this way if something does happen and lets say you stumble across some chick that blows your hair back, you've at least begun to clear your path
 
Is what others said, if you cant say it, it´s because you dont love her and if so, she might be not the one for you. It´s better not to say it than say it because it´s what she wanted to hear. Today it´s really easy to say " I love you, bitch" but for me, real love doesnt come out in a few days. It´s strange to hear people saiyng that they love in a matter of days. Really weird. I can say more quickly that I love my guitar or amp than a girl!lol
 
Could also be a language thing.
You're from Kuwait?

Nope, I'm Taiwanese, born and raised in the States. My job has taken me to this damned place and away from my girlfriend.

Wasn't in love for 4 years(to contribute smthg), you can't force it...

Good to hear...there is hope!

@Skinny Viking: We're already on the same page. I'm definitely not stringing her along - she knows that I'm not there yet. And yeah, she's waiting, but I'm not sure how much longer I should wait.

Thanks for all the input guys, really appreciate it!