So you get offered an NSA relationship with a coworker

[Sfarog]

she's 3 years older, got a husband and two kids... she's also good looking and horny beyond belief. So?

 

[AsModEe]

you've been offered a national security agency relationship? I say take it!

 

[Evil?]

she's 3 years older, got a husband and two kids... she's also good looking and horny beyond belief. So?

No.

 

[Sanctums]

Eh, best not to get in the middle of her srewball life.

 

[MajestikMøøse]

The most important question to ponder here is

Who is the husband?

and

Is he capable of beating you up and/or killing you?

 

[MajestikMøøse]

I'd hit it.


But that's just because I'd hit anything at this point.

 

[Reign in Acai]

No good can come from it.

 

[Dark One]

Absolutely, positively not worth it.

 

[Lies and Perfidy]

do not hit it.

 

[EricT]

Ass-Fuck the husband.

I think that'd lead to an interesting story.

 

[Necromunchkin]

I would...
(you can look up several threads where I have, in fact)



Just don't sign anything. And avoid contact with her children at all cost. And don't jam her in the ass when she's talking to her husband on the phone. That can lead to some difficulties later.

 

[Claws of Perdition]

And don't jam her in the ass when she's talking to her husband on the phone. That can lead to some difficulties later.

Haha, that story was a classic


By all means if you have no one in your life go for it, just make sure the husband wont cut off your balls if he finds out.

 

[Mormagil]

sounds like bad news, not to mention NSA + coworker you see regularly = not NSA for long. one of you will get ideas, probably you. who cares about the husband, he's probably a loser, but at least be considerate to the kids

 

[Crimson Death]

Haha, that story was a classic


By all means if you have no one in your life go for it, just make sure the husband wont cut off your balls if he finds out.

link plz

 

[Demilich]

I'd do it, personally, but I'm stupid and young and have many lessons to learn.

 

[lurch70]

Polish?

 

[Conspicuously Absent]

Sounds like a good way to make the workplace really awkward or fucked up, create two really fucked up wastes of skin in society (if the Kids aren't such already), and possibly lose your life to a derranged husband.

Sounds like fun.....

 

[Reign in Acai]

Though it will have no influence on my stance on the matter, post a picture of this bint.

 

[General Zod]

Not worth it. There are simply too many woman out there, to put yourself in the middle of this situation.

Zod

 

[Dark One]

In all seriousness, without even thinking about it being right or wrong, just think about it logically. Yes, short term benefits are (most likely) awesome, but remember, women respond emotionally to sex infinitely more than men do (they can say "NSA" all they want, there really is no such thing).

First, you work with this girl - you cannot have your fun and later cut her off if she get's too clingy. Even if that were to happen and you successfully end things, the constant reminder of the uncomfortable situation remains. Second, she's married with kids - I have no idea what her situation with him is, but it doesn't sound like a divorced/separated situation to me - that makes the whole situation complicated and dangerous from the word go. Who knows how he'll react if he finds out? He knows where she works, he knows where you work. Who knows how the whole family will react if he catches her or if she later regrets her mistake and simply confesses? A minor fling could tear apart a family, it's happened a billion times. And again, you're the bad guy in every scenario, even if she's the one egging you on.

I'm quite certain there are far better situations out there for you (whether "NSA" style or otherwise). Just be patient.

Jason