When everything seems to go exactly like they shouldn't, what makes you open your eyes, look up and realise that it's not really the end of the world?
Originally posted by Demonic Rapture
Nothing...I tend to think the worst of things, even when it's not warranted.
true: the lower your expectations are, the easier to be happy. but happy about what? lower things? it doesn't work.Originally posted by Northern Viking
you should lower your expectations.
that reasoning sounds very familiar to me. the problem is that way you often don't expect anything from yourself, too, and so you lack of stimuli to achieve your goals.Originally posted by Northern Viking
When you dont expect anything, you cant get disappointed
Originally posted by Eddy
When everything seems to go exactly like they shouldn't, what makes you open your eyes, look up and realise that it's not really the end of the world?
No, but Im happy when I manage to lower the hurt already, and get to live kinda normallyOriginally posted by mourningstar
true: the lower your expectations are, the easier to be happy. but happy about what? lower things? it doesn't work.
I do expect a few things from myself, although I do lack the drive for most things. Why should I be so eager to do that shit anyway? I walk on the edge between what needs to be done and what I can leave undone, just to get the best least work / least problems relationOriginally posted by mourningstar
that reasoning sounds very familiar to me. the problem is that way you often don't expect anything from yourself, too, and so you lack of stimuli to achieve your goals.
that concept is far from being stupid. i think i got what you mean, but i also think there are two different situations. you can apply that reasoning to things you have to do, things which might not be that important or interesting. but you should agree with me that when you have the opportunity to do something for yourself, something you might get some satisfaction from, that idea isn't the best one to apply.Originally posted by Northern Viking
Why should I be so eager to do that shit anyway? I walk on the edge between what needs to be done and what I can leave undone, just to get the best least work / least problems relation
*reads her crystal ball* your exams will go fineOriginally posted by Northern Viking
Well ok, not really, Im close to my final exams
no, on the contrary, thank you for answering!Originally posted by Northern Viking
And no, I didnt take anything personally, if I sound so, Im sorry, I didnt mean it
Originally posted by Eddy
When everything seems to go exactly like they shouldn't, what makes you open your eyes, look up and realise that it's not really the end of the world?