marduk1507
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Dont worry, she was probably gay anyway. But maybe you should fight a bit more, maybe then shed see you different, not as mere friend. Is she worth that?
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^Nope, I actually struggled a bit before so I did all I could already (to tell the truth, I was merely looking for a good fuck-friend 
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marduk1507
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Aaaah, well, youre only 21, so its quite normal. So, probably good for her, the realisation that shes just a fuck-friend would probably hurt her a lot. But what do I know, Im 28 and married.
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Rampage: I hate it when they do that! Why are people so stupid that they can't come up with an original/credible answer if they don't want to tell you the truth? Why are they so stupid that they think the truth hurts more than such stupid lies? Eh, i guess stupidity is more abundant than hydrogen. As i said, she's the one missing out on something. I'm glad you're not sad or anything.
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UndoControl said:
Yeah, well maybe I simply wasn't the guy for her either. Don't be so angry man, it's the way it is. However I do agree with you when you say that people shouldn't hide the truth because they think it's gonna hurt too much to tell it. I often say this : "The smallest of lies will cause greater harm than the most painful truth"
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Rampage:
Of course. It always hurts more to find out by yourself.
Sorry for exploding, mate, but i really hate it when they do that. And they've done it to me so many times that it's gottn on my nerves.
But.. i don't want to ruin a perfectly happy day (yes; for some reason, everyone in this city seems to be in a good, kind, happy, peaceful mood today).
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hyena: Sorry, i just wanted to help... :\
Of course. It always hurts more to find out by yourself.
Sorry for exploding, mate, but i really hate it when they do that. And they've done it to me so many times that it's gottn on my nerves.
But.. i don't want to ruin a perfectly happy day (yes; for some reason, everyone in this city seems to be in a good, kind, happy, peaceful mood today).
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hyena: Sorry, i just wanted to help... :\
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@hyena: i'm a man of action (!) and as such i will try to help by suggesting you take a longer look at your new title and, if you find that there is nothing wrong with it at all, proceed to let me in on the joke.
@Rampage; Undo: Regarding the "i like you as a friend" thing: sometimes it's just the plain truth and the best explanation that can be given. You don't have to assume there's some greater hidden truth in that statement, sometimes the truth is just that: the girl likes you and wants to have you as a friend, but doesn't want anything more. You should be grateful they're at least trying to be polite and the least hurtful. If they said something impolite i'm sure you would be going "what a bitch" all over them. Besides, you shouldn't assume it's any easier for them to find the words to express themselves, it's an awkward situation for everybody.
And yes, i'm saying this because i'm in the exact same situation right now.
And yes, i'm saying this because i'm in the exact same situation right now.
Magrathean
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Okay, maybe i overreacted a little. My apologies, miss. But sometimes girls say stupid shit like "if we became a couple our friendship would be ruined". And that's what pisses me off.
But sometimes girls say stupid shit like "if we became a couple our friendship would be ruined". And that's what pisses me off.@undies: yeah i understand that's a load of crap and i understand why it gets you pissed. but it does hold some truth, ie a real friendship can last forever while a relationship could end quite fast (and it's really hard to maintain a friendship after a breakup). sometimes you have to decide which would be better to keep in the long run.
still, the problem with that quote is that they use it for the wrong reasons and it sounds like a load of crap.
still, the problem with that quote is that they use it for the wrong reasons and it sounds like a load of crap.
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@Siren : I agree with you that sometimes women are simply telling the plain truth and there's nothing more to it. I also agree that friendship is forever and relationships aren't. In fact I think my anger towards the "you're just a friend" answer is somewhat defensive. I want it to be something else because it's going to be hard for me to accept the fact that she wants me as a friend and nothing more. I know she likes me but I can't go any further, and it takes some time to accept that. Still I have known women that uses this answer just to get rid of an annoying (in their opinions I mean) individual and that I do not approve.
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The problem with that kind of reasoning is that some friendships don't last forever and some boyfriend-girlfriend relationships do.
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That is true. Yet friendships tend to last more than relationships and that's how general reasoning should work. But that's just some overview, in the end, every relation (friendship and love) should be taken and dealt with individualy for everytime different people and characters are involved.
That was vague....
That was vague....
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Thank you for that and now I'll move on with the thread's subject (I should do that more often)
NF : Good but quite sleepy, and tomorrow will be a tough day with work and family meetings (I sometimes dislike those). Anyways, guess it'll just be another day I'll live through without minding much about it, waiting for the next one to come...
NF : Good but quite sleepy, and tomorrow will be a tough day with work and family meetings (I sometimes dislike those). Anyways, guess it'll just be another day I'll live through without minding much about it, waiting for the next one to come...
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