@Dark Chapter: First of all, my post wasn´t addressed to "everyone", but those who still seem to be in their "anal phase". Second, it´s not about favourite bands being thrashed. I know very well that not everyone shares the same opinion about everything and I definitely don´t expect everyone to do so! It´s about that implying that it would be good news/funny if a vocalist you dislike killed herself is simply tasteless! It´s like saying: "This world would be a better place, if she was dead, because her voice sucks." I know that JayKeeley´s wording was different, but some people seemed to find the thought of Agnete Kirkevaag killing herself very entertaining. Third, JayKeeley´s way to compare Monika´s vocals to "getting arse raped by two dudes" and Agente´s vocals to "getting arse raped by three dudes" wasn´t funny at all, either (as well as some other posts in the same vein). It sounded like: "Oh, you got arse raped by two dudes? Cheer up, it´s still better than listening to Agnete Kirkevaag´s vocals!" or "Oh, you got arse raped by one guy? Still better than listening to Monika Edvardsen´s vocals!" and people just start laughing their heads off. It´s pouring out sheer contempt, like saying that these two vocalists deserve to be held in contempt just because of the way they sing.
Finally, does the music of Madder Mortem and Atrox have any profound impact on the personal life of those who criticise it? I could as well say: "It´s vocals, albeit crude, but accept it." You tell me to accept their criticism, but don´t want to accept mine? Is this a one-way road? By the way, if there was a rule that you may only post about things which have a profound impact on your personal life, the vast majority of threads on UM would have to be closed down immediately - including this one.