Gotta remember that there are a lot of marriages that DO work as well, and a lot of benefits to those that do.
I might agree that exclusivity for life isn't healthy for anyone, but some people at the very least make it work with very positive results.
yeah, I have a few in my family that have lasted a long time and still treat eachother with a lot of love decades later.
I think the secrets are
- marry your best friend
- never go to sleep angry
- agree to swinging