the whole thing sucks and i'm trying now to forget about her, althought it's very painful - we (the dumped ones) just will have to move on to something else, coz life goes on... and i'm working on it...
Crack Hitler
homeless
It's gonna be hard. I just realised it's been three weeks since she pulled the plug but it feels like it was yesterday. Maybe next summer I'll be ok? 
Just remember not to rush things. Give yourself permission to feel like shit. That's the only way through it.
Just remember not to rush things. Give yourself permission to feel like shit. That's the only way through it.
Originally posted by ashure
so what about the ones who had to dump even though they still love the other ? or dump him/her by knowing that is gonna be painful for both sides but also had to be done?
so far, you've always looked from other perspective, but there's this dimension in real life & relationships too. Well I'm not talking about 1 - 2 months relationships of course
"Had to be done"
I don't get this. If you ''love'' somebody the only thing that has to be done is to stay together... why dump him/her? Don't get what you're sayin'.
Crack Hitler
homeless
If only it could be that simple.
The truth is that sometimes people just can't stay together for various reasons even though they might love each other.
The truth is that sometimes people just can't stay together for various reasons even though they might love each other.
Don Corleone
Emre
Originally posted by discouraged1
hey ppl, do you know what's love?
Pain of Salvation - Remedy Lane!
it's so fulfilment to these ears it's overwhelming......
or The Loveless - Star Rover(although that's kinda brokenhearted love, but it's still THAT emotion)....
the feeling you have when you yearn4 for some1 to be here, right here before you right NOW....
REMEDY LANE! DEFINITELY A TRUE LOVE STORY...
though i suggest opeth's "still life"!
Don Corleone
Emre
Originally posted by ashure
so what about the ones who had to dump even though they still love the other ? or dump him/her by knowing that is gonna be painful for both sides but also had to be done?
so far, you've always looked from other perspective, but there's this dimension in real life & relationships too. Well I'm not talking about 1 - 2 months relationships of course
confessions! nahahah
Lenore
human wrecking ball
Nick Cave & Kylie minogue's "where the wild roses grow"is the lovesong 
They call me The Wild Rose
But my name was Elisa Day
Why they call me it I do not know
For my name was Elisa Day
From the first day I saw her I knew she was the one
She stared in my eyes and smiled
For her lips were the colour of the roses
That grew down the river, all bloody and wild
When he knocked on my door and entered the room
My trembling subsided in his sure embrace
He would be my first man, and with a careful hand
He wiped at the tears that ran down my face
On the second day I brought her a flower
She was more beautiful than any woman I'd seen
I said, Do you know where the wild roses grow
So sweet and scarlet and free?
On the second day he came with a single red rose
Said: Will you give me your loss and your
sorrow
I nodded my head, as I lay on the bed
He said, If I show you the roses, will you
follow?
On the third day he took me to the river
He showed me the roses and we kissed
And the last thing I heard was a muttered word
As he knelt (stood smiling) above me with a rock in his
fist
On the last day I took her where the wild roses grow
And she lay on the bank, the wind light as a thief
And I kissed her goodbye, said, All beauty must
die
And lent down and planted a rose between her teeth
They call me The Wild Rose
But my name was Elisa Day
Why they call me it I do not know
For my name was Elisa Day
From the first day I saw her I knew she was the one
She stared in my eyes and smiled
For her lips were the colour of the roses
That grew down the river, all bloody and wild
When he knocked on my door and entered the room
My trembling subsided in his sure embrace
He would be my first man, and with a careful hand
He wiped at the tears that ran down my face
On the second day I brought her a flower
She was more beautiful than any woman I'd seen
I said, Do you know where the wild roses grow
So sweet and scarlet and free?
On the second day he came with a single red rose
Said: Will you give me your loss and your
sorrow
I nodded my head, as I lay on the bed
He said, If I show you the roses, will you
follow?
On the third day he took me to the river
He showed me the roses and we kissed
And the last thing I heard was a muttered word
As he knelt (stood smiling) above me with a rock in his
fist
On the last day I took her where the wild roses grow
And she lay on the bank, the wind light as a thief
And I kissed her goodbye, said, All beauty must
die
And lent down and planted a rose between her teeth
slayer - 213
Driving compulsion morbid thoughts come to mind
Sexual release buried deep inside
Complete control of a prized possession
To touch and fondle with no objection
Lonely souls an emptiness fulfilled
Physical pleasures an addictive thrill
An object of perverted reality
An obsession beyond your wildest dreams
The Death loves final embrace
Your cool tenderness
Memories keep love alive
Memories will never die
The excitement of dissection is sweet
My skin crawls with orgasmic speed
A lifeless object for my subjection
An obsession beyond your imagination
Primitive instinct a passion for flesh
Primal feeding on the multitudes of death
Sadistic acts a love so true
Absorbingly masticating a part of you
Death loves final embrace
Your cool tenderness
Memories keep love alive
Memories will never die
I need a friend
Please be my companion
I don't want to be
Alone with my sanity
Erotic sensations tingle my spine
A dead body lying next to mine
Smooth blue black lips
I start salivating as we kiss
Mine forever this sweet death
I cannot forget all your breaths
Panting excitedly with my hands around
Your neck
Shades are drawn
No one out can see
What I've done
What's become of me
Her I stand
Above all that's been true
How I love
How I love to kill you
Driving compulsion morbid thoughts come to mind
Sexual release buried deep inside
Complete control of a prized possession
To touch and fondle with no objection
Lonely souls an emptiness fulfilled
Physical pleasures an addictive thrill
An object of perverted reality
An obsession beyond your wildest dreams
The Death loves final embrace
Your cool tenderness
Memories keep love alive
Memories will never die
The excitement of dissection is sweet
My skin crawls with orgasmic speed
A lifeless object for my subjection
An obsession beyond your imagination
Primitive instinct a passion for flesh
Primal feeding on the multitudes of death
Sadistic acts a love so true
Absorbingly masticating a part of you
Death loves final embrace
Your cool tenderness
Memories keep love alive
Memories will never die
I need a friend
Please be my companion
I don't want to be
Alone with my sanity
Erotic sensations tingle my spine
A dead body lying next to mine
Smooth blue black lips
I start salivating as we kiss
Mine forever this sweet death
I cannot forget all your breaths
Panting excitedly with my hands around
Your neck
Shades are drawn
No one out can see
What I've done
What's become of me
Her I stand
Above all that's been true
How I love
How I love to kill you
Lenore
human wrecking ball
Don Corleone
Emre
Originally posted by Lenore
Nick Cave & Kylie minogue's "where the wild roses grow"is the lovesong
They call me The Wild Rose
But my name was Elisa Day
Why they call me it I do not know
For my name was Elisa Day
From the first day I saw her I knew she was the one
She stared in my eyes and smiled
For her lips were the colour of the roses
That grew down the river, all bloody and wild
When he knocked on my door and entered the room
My trembling subsided in his sure embrace
He would be my first man, and with a careful hand
He wiped at the tears that ran down my face
On the second day I brought her a flower
She was more beautiful than any woman I'd seen
I said, Do you know where the wild roses grow
So sweet and scarlet and free?
On the second day he came with a single red rose
Said: Will you give me your loss and your
sorrow
I nodded my head, as I lay on the bed
He said, If I show you the roses, will you
follow?
On the third day he took me to the river
He showed me the roses and we kissed
And the last thing I heard was a muttered word
As he knelt (stood smiling) above me with a rock in his
fist
On the last day I took her where the wild roses grow
And she lay on the bank, the wind light as a thief
And I kissed her goodbye, said, All beauty must
die
And lent down and planted a rose between her teeth
great song.
Strangelight
steak(knife) no more
She was the perfect woman, she was my kind of a bird
She stayed in the kitchen and never said a word
She had real big tits and a lovely slappable arse
But now she's into barbeques and wine bars
I used to go out with her, she cooked me all my meals
Then one day she made it big, she won 'Miss Macclesfield'
She married an Italian just coz he was posh
They honeymooned in Brussels, he played a bit of squash
Next she wed an ale baron who came from Lancashire
But he wasn't rich, he was just another Wigan Pier
I used to go out with her, she cooked me all my meals
Then one day she made it big, she won 'Miss Macclesfield'
She'll get fed-up with buffets, one day she'll come back
She knows that all the real men live in Macc
She'll tell me that she loves me and she hated living with toffs
I'll slip her a length, then I'll tell her: 'Fuck off'
I used to go out with her, she cooked a nice bit of grub,
She may have been a beauty queen, but I'd rather go down the pub.
She stayed in the kitchen and never said a word
She had real big tits and a lovely slappable arse
But now she's into barbeques and wine bars
I used to go out with her, she cooked me all my meals
Then one day she made it big, she won 'Miss Macclesfield'
She married an Italian just coz he was posh
They honeymooned in Brussels, he played a bit of squash
Next she wed an ale baron who came from Lancashire
But he wasn't rich, he was just another Wigan Pier
I used to go out with her, she cooked me all my meals
Then one day she made it big, she won 'Miss Macclesfield'
She'll get fed-up with buffets, one day she'll come back
She knows that all the real men live in Macc
She'll tell me that she loves me and she hated living with toffs
I'll slip her a length, then I'll tell her: 'Fuck off'
I used to go out with her, she cooked a nice bit of grub,
She may have been a beauty queen, but I'd rather go down the pub.
Elmarad
In sanity
Are you going to wait till the next summer to find another love? Man, this is wrong - terribly wrong - you need to distract yourself NOW!!Originally posted by Crack Hitler
...Maybe next summer I'll be ok?
Just remember not to rush things. Give yourself permission to feel like shit. That's the only way through it.
I was dumped, but i don't think i deserved it and she will be the one to regret it - i'm sure!
And i'm rushing things, coz i don't want to feel self-pity anymore!! I had that too much in my life before...
ashure
[The Acrobat of Life]
Originally posted by Crack Hitler
If only it could be that simple.
The truth is that sometimes people just can't stay together for various reasons even though they might love each other.
I couldn't say it better !
(well actually I can, but you made a nice summary of my thoughts so why bother myself ?
)
ashure
[The Acrobat of Life]
let's say experiences
well theses 'dumping for no-reason' stuff is usually hand-in-hand with short relationships. for the long ones however, there's always a reason. 'Dumper' can explain it to the other or not.But there's always a reason behind the decision.
I've been together with my boyfriend for almost 4 years.and I thought so many times to break up.Some of my reasons were really stupid. but some were making sense.But there are also times that you stop and give the relationship the chance to prove itself.I did it and it worked.
yes that's all for today from the expert
Crack Hitler
homeless
No, mate. I don't even want "to find another love" at the moment. I ment that maybe a few months from now I don't feel this crap inside. I'm gonna be down and feel like shit and drown in self-pity as long as those feelings last. After that I'll be ready to face the world again
I don't wanna feel this way either, but it won't do me good to hit the bars and party all night long etc in this current situation. Well, atleast not every night
Crack Hitler
homeless
Originally posted by ashure
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I've been together with my boyfriend for almost 4 years.and I thought so many times to break up.Some of my reasons were really stupid. but some were making sense.But there are also times that you stop and give the relationship the chance to prove itself.I did it and it worked.
yes that's all for today from the expert
It's only healthy to consider breaking up in a long relationship. That way you can think what good and bad sides there would be doing it and maybe it'll help you realise how special relationship you're in... and in a long run you really shouldn't dump someone from a sudden change of mind, we're only human. Those feelings and ideas come and go and you might get even more miserable when you realise you've just dumped a love of your life.
Yeh, blaah. This comin from a real expert
this is what my friend told me about my current situation -Originally posted by Crack Hitler
No, mate. I don't even want "to find another love" at the moment. I ment that maybe a few months from now I don't feel this crap inside. I'm gonna be down and feel like shit and drown in self-pity as long as those feelings last. After that I'll be ready to face the world again
"remember: storms and rain are always temporary, the sun is not. When clouds are gone, the sun is still there. "
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