you probably don't care, but...

Oh, I am so sorry abou that!! :cry: How could it happen that sudden?...

As for Nevermore... I really am no spokeswoman of them but I think they are not in the studio yet though I guess they will be recording soon...
 
Went through that myself, recently. It's funny how one day you're getting these beautiful, almost poetic e-mails from this person and things seem so damned good and it's beautiful...

and suddenly she's got all these issues and without warning of any kind things have fallen apart. I've been in relationships were things weren't working and you can sort of see it breaking down, but what's the deal with being in love, and the other person "supposedly" being just as in love but apparently some divine fucking act of emotional intervention in their subconscious changes everything?

I don't get it. I've gotten through the mourning period and now I'm just trying to avoid the oceans of bitterness that want to build in my throat just thinking about her.

My theory is the person probably couldn't handle you because you were to real and too caring. Most people like emotional interaction to be as shallow and uninteresting as the rest of their lives, surface deep. Hang in there. You've obviously got musical taste, and from what I can tell, intelligence and depth and passion. Remember that.

Jimbo
 
hmm, reminds me of, what a friend once told me:
"Woman and their emotional masochisme"...
:s
xxx Iris xxx
 
I also went through a similar experience recently, and at first I could not believe I would not longer be with the woman I loved so much. The way I try to think of it is that, when one does not wish to be with you as much as you want to be with her, then you might be better off, 'cause out there someone exists who is willing to give to you as much as you deserve. In addition try to think of this: Those who deserve your tears will never make you cry. I know it hurts right now, but you'll realise you are better off now and free to find the one who deserves your love. Someone out there will love you as much as you will love him/her and what you're feeling right now will crumble in comparison. ;)
 
It was the strangest reason... He said "I love you more than anything, but, I can't go on seeing you sad, it hurts me to see you like that. Thats why we can't do this anymore..."

thank you for the support, it helps
 
remember this, INTHE ENND


ITS ALL ABOUT , POWER OR MONEY.
 
"That night I spread my wings
To hold your shadow in my bleeding heart
But the wind sailed you away …to fate?

That dream I thought was true
The touch of wind caressed your moonlight lips
To make them sing the words …of mourn"
 
etherealsadness, sorry about your loss. I've gone through losing a "major love" twice. 2 girls I almost got engaged to, but glad I didn't. The first girl was my fault because I was 19 and she was 23 and I wasn't "mature" enough, supposedely. The 2nd major love went out on me, but I forgave her and got shit on again. I thought it was the end of the world, but "time heals all wounds" and life will get better. Somebody told me once that when dealing with the loss of a loved one, be it a relationship or a death, that the pain never goes away, you just learn how to cope better as time goes by. Sometimes LOVE SUCKS,
 
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