Nice letter dude.
I must attach mine here too, cuz Opeth (in fact, Opeth's DVD) made a difference to me and my mothers life. It ended a 1 year relationship she had with my stepdad and he no longer lives with us, YEAH.
Why/How you ask. Well, as I posted here earlier, I bought the DVD and I can't seem to play it on my DVD player. One day, I went with the dvd to my aunts home so I could rip it off to DIVX from her laptop and bring it home to watch it comfortably. So I did. We (me, mom and stepdad) were at my aunt's home and my stepdad was a little impatient to get home, heh, and I was like taking too much time to rip the DVD. He got mad because he had to wait tons of time, a big discussion and stress was generated from a simple thing (which could had been avoided by both of us) and.. well, my mother, in order to protect me (heh) started fighting (in words) and they broke up. It happened like 2 weeks ago.
Anyway, all ends well when the DVD player doesn't play Opeth. HEH?
Cheers
P.S: My aunt likes damnation. She' slapped me when the drappery falls was running though and said something like "You still into that vomit music?"