It wasnt directed towards me but Ill answer.
I first listened to hard rock when in 1988 and progressed to metal during 1993 or so. To me lyrics was always an important part. You dont have to agree with everything but just random mumbo jumbo wont do it. Cannibal Corpse is a good example. Although Im no big fan of the music anyway. But shitty written lyrics usually equals me not bying the record unless the music is really, really good.
I also hate certain themes. Party music - sex, drygn and rock n roll - is an automatic "no, no" for me.
To totally disregard such a big aspect of music is weird to me. One reason Immortal sounds cold to people are because of the lyrics. Many bands define themselves with their lyrics. People thought dark funeral were posers almost from the start because of the lyrics as well. Its a big part of the music.
i agree with a lot of what you said. lyrics tend to win me over most of the time. but if i like the music enough i will let it slide from time to time.