i hate the phone, but talking to a new chick for like 3 hours straight is pretty cool

[Conspicuously Absent]

no, i need a mild buzz, it soothes my nerves or my "give-a-shit" sense... i dunno.

 

[snow2fall]

no, i need a mild buzz, it soothes my nerves or my "give-a-shit" sense... i dunno.

Both I guess. And don't expect it to be any different for the girl.

 

[Conspicuously Absent]

I mostly just hate the whole song and dance, and back-asswards routines that people have to go through just to ask a simple question, or anything else. Whatever happened to a direct approach being the best one?

 

[MajestikMøøse]

Now, for the sake of illustration:

"Hey babe, I have a car. Lets fuck."

 

[Conspicuously Absent]

no, not what I meant. I meant the "you seem like a cool person, lets hang out sometime"

 

[Six-winged Seraph]

I talked to a girl on the phone for the first time yesterday, it was awesome

 

[snow2fall]

I mostly just hate the whole song and dance, and back-asswards routines that people have to go through just to ask a simple question, or anything else. Whatever happened to a direct approach being the best one?

Dunno. The reason why I often prefer spending time with guys rather than with girls is the fact that they tend to be more direct, honest and forthcoming. Even though their simplicity can be shocking sometimes, I like the fact that they usually mean what they say.

Why would saying something like "lets hang out sometime" be so impossible...?!

 

[MajestikMøøse]

no, not what I meant. I meant the "you seem like a cool person, lets hang out sometime"

My post was mainly for comic relief, but with seriousness, now I am perplexed.

However, I should not speak because I don't go out and try saying that sort of thing actively.

 

[Crimson Velvet]

Even though their simplicity can be shocking sometimes, I like the fact that they usually mean what they say.

Unless they have an agenda. Which is something a disgustingly large number of boys/have when talking to newly met girls/women.

 

[Conspicuously Absent]

Dunno. The reason why I often prefer spending time with guys rather than with girls is the fact that they tend to be more direct, honest and forthcoming. Even though their simplicity can be shocking sometimes, I like the fact that they usually mean what they say.

Unless they have an agenda. Which is something a disgustingly large number of boys/have when talking to newly met girls/women.

Both are equally true.

Why would saying something like "lets hang out sometime" be so impossible...?!

I dunno, it's just not done that way out here, at least not in the shithole town I grew up in. So it's what I've gotten used to. I'm used to you have to inform your friends, who inform her friends, her friends come and grill you about it, if you meet their approval they inform her and somehow through the mysteries of feminine groups they arrange a time/place for you two to hang out with neither of you knowing ahead of time. If you get along, great, if not, it never happened.

Because of this, and some other shit I won't talk about to anyone but my closest friends, I'm too chicken shit to even muster a "lets hangout sometime".

 

[MajestikMøøse]

This thread is starting to regress now.

PUPPIES!

 

[Night Mare]

I dunno, it's just not done that way out here, at least not in the shithole town I grew up in. So it's what I've gotten used to. I'm used to you have to inform your friends, who inform her friends, her friends come and grill you about it, if you meet their approval they inform her and somehow through the mysteries of feminine groups they arrange a time/place for you two to hang out with neither of you knowing ahead of time. If you get along, great, if not, it never happened.

Sounds pretty much exactly like our local system. If one of the 2 people involved is a loner, then you're pretty much fucked.

 

[snow2fall]

I'm used to you have to inform your friends, who inform her friends, her friends come and grill you about it, if you meet their approval they inform her and somehow through the mysteries of feminine groups they arrange a time/place for you two to hang out with neither of you knowing ahead of time.

:zombie:

 

[MajestikMøøse]

and on a further completely random note:

The Cabbages and Condoms Restaurant

 

[Conspicuously Absent]

:zombie:

glad to see i'm not the only one who thinks that its a fucked up system
and to help herr M00se.

 

[snow2fall]

glad to see i'm not the only one who thinks that its a fucked up system

Not even 14-year-olds have a system like that here as far as I know.

My heartfelt sympathy.

 

[Chromatose]

If I could change my vote to 1 star, I gladly would.

 

[E-bortion]

yeah same here, this thread got gayed by you two (maren and IT) why dont you just get aim and have e-sex already

 

[Chromatose]

because he's lacking a vagina

 

[Conspicuously Absent]

yeah, it did kinda turn into a mush fest. haha.