Hello, and thank you very much for coming to this thread. Before I begin, I do not intend to hurt or offend anyone by what I am about to say. So if any offence is caused, then I am deeply sorry and it was very much unintended.
OK, let us begin.
My mother was brought up in a strictly orthodox Catholic surrounding, my father was brought up with Pagan beliefs. They got married, a Catholic wedding because my mum said that if they didn't have one there would be no wedding at all. After that, my father's parents threw a hissy fit, and disowned him. I have only seen that set of grandparents twice in my life, and they do not care for me or my brother very much.
My mother's parents however, are truly wonderful. They have been around me all my life.
Now...
When my parents had me, there was a discussion over whether I should be cristened or not... my mother was adament that I should be, my father was against it. So in the end, my father won and I was not cristened. Neither was my brother.
Because of my parents beliefs, my childhood was quite confusing because I never knew what to believe. My mother tried to educate me more on the subject of Christianity, my father just stood by feeling he was in the wrong. And this was causing tension, because my mother had a lot of morals and such, and, my father did too, but his were quite different.
Up until a few years ago, I used to be God-fearing. Then I picked up one of my dad's books on Buddhism, I found it quite interesting, but when my mum found out she took the book away from me and scalded my father for letting me read that sort of thing. And it dawned on me... If God was real, then he wouldn't let my dad go to hell, because that would make me unhappy. Maybe there was no hell at all? But in that case, there couldn't be a heaven. After many a confusing time, I decided that I shouldn't have to believe anything, and since then I have been Athiest.
There is more to my story. The reason I haven't written it all down is a combination of two things. One, I am suffering from exhaustion having been overworked and underpaid. Two, I can't really put into words some of the events that happened.
I am not whinging about my childhood, I found it to be a very happy one. And wouldn't change anything for the world. And incase you were wondering, my parents are still together, and the arguments have almost ceased ever since my brother decided to stop beliving in any religion.
I'm not saying that the choice my brother and I made were the right choices, but they were the right choices for us. They may not be the right choice for others though, but we respect that because well... different strokes different folks.
Anyway, the whole purpose of me writing my dull life story on here is because I would like to know your thoughts of Interfaith marriages, and possibly your thoughts on how it would affect the offspring.
Or if you had parents from an interfaith marriage, how did it affect you?
Here are some useful links:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interfaith_marriage
http://www.interfaithmarriage.org.uk/
http://www.religioustolerance.org/ifm_menu.htm
Once again, I am truly sorry if any of the content in my post offended anyone. If you wish, you may PM me and have a go at me, I will understand!
Discuss the above please...
OK, let us begin.
My mother was brought up in a strictly orthodox Catholic surrounding, my father was brought up with Pagan beliefs. They got married, a Catholic wedding because my mum said that if they didn't have one there would be no wedding at all. After that, my father's parents threw a hissy fit, and disowned him. I have only seen that set of grandparents twice in my life, and they do not care for me or my brother very much.
My mother's parents however, are truly wonderful. They have been around me all my life.
Now...
When my parents had me, there was a discussion over whether I should be cristened or not... my mother was adament that I should be, my father was against it. So in the end, my father won and I was not cristened. Neither was my brother.
Because of my parents beliefs, my childhood was quite confusing because I never knew what to believe. My mother tried to educate me more on the subject of Christianity, my father just stood by feeling he was in the wrong. And this was causing tension, because my mother had a lot of morals and such, and, my father did too, but his were quite different.
Up until a few years ago, I used to be God-fearing. Then I picked up one of my dad's books on Buddhism, I found it quite interesting, but when my mum found out she took the book away from me and scalded my father for letting me read that sort of thing. And it dawned on me... If God was real, then he wouldn't let my dad go to hell, because that would make me unhappy. Maybe there was no hell at all? But in that case, there couldn't be a heaven. After many a confusing time, I decided that I shouldn't have to believe anything, and since then I have been Athiest.
There is more to my story. The reason I haven't written it all down is a combination of two things. One, I am suffering from exhaustion having been overworked and underpaid. Two, I can't really put into words some of the events that happened.
I am not whinging about my childhood, I found it to be a very happy one. And wouldn't change anything for the world. And incase you were wondering, my parents are still together, and the arguments have almost ceased ever since my brother decided to stop beliving in any religion.
I'm not saying that the choice my brother and I made were the right choices, but they were the right choices for us. They may not be the right choice for others though, but we respect that because well... different strokes different folks.
Anyway, the whole purpose of me writing my dull life story on here is because I would like to know your thoughts of Interfaith marriages, and possibly your thoughts on how it would affect the offspring.
Or if you had parents from an interfaith marriage, how did it affect you?
Here are some useful links:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interfaith_marriage
http://www.interfaithmarriage.org.uk/
http://www.religioustolerance.org/ifm_menu.htm
Once again, I am truly sorry if any of the content in my post offended anyone. If you wish, you may PM me and have a go at me, I will understand!
Discuss the above please...