Hi there! Back for posting after a while!
I don't think metal is crap nowadays... I'm proud to be a metalhead, proud to wear band's t-shirts (even Slipknot!), and proud to get so many metal CD's... Metal has a lot of variations, anybody on this earth can find something interesting on it you know... For example, my sister is a big star academy fan (you know, all this TV bullshit), but she likes Type O Negative, The Gathering, Anathema, etc... bands where the singer really sings.
But I understand Bambi's point of view when he's speaking about ripping off the "old" legends... But you know, for example, what are Dew-Scented & The Haunted except Slayer ripps-off? But admit they are great, they play with passion and power, and both their latest effort are better than Slayer's "God hates us all"!
You know, I like Massive Attack, Jeff Buckley, Radiohead, Antimatter, Mark Lanegan, Peter Gabriel, Pink Floyd, Genesis, Coldplay, etc... but I also listen to Hate eternal, Inhume, Angel corpse, Darkthrone, Aborted and a lot of killer death/black/grind bands...
If you are searching for something unique and/or original, you should try bands like Samael, Devin Townsend, Strapping young lad, A perfect circle, Korn, Tool, Cult Of Luna, etc... There are too many to list on web page...
Music is just a matter of feelings, metal in general can fits them all...